Are you aware of "textmate"? It's the same as phone pal yet it's through texting with the use of cellular phones.
Okay... I have a textmate (of course, he's a guy), and we've been texting for more than a week now. We've already formally met but only once. During our first acquaintance (I guess it's a date, you tell me), we watched a movie. At the movie house, he acted like we're really together, like he's my boyfriend or something (but he's NOT). Sooner, he hugged me so tight and kissed me on the lips (hey! it was my first kiss!). I told him not to hug and kiss me, but he actually did it. He kept caressing my hair, my face and my hands (and I got goosebumps because of that!). He said he fell in love with me because of the way I text; he fell in love with me before he met me in person. He said that it seemed he knew me for so long now, that's why he's comfortable being with me. He always say he loves me. But I don't know if he's sincere. What should I do? I'm so confused. Thanks.
2006-12-15 18:56:39 · 23 answers · asked by Chimchim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can see feeling like youve known a person forever, i can see love at first sight, but love at first text message?? Call me sceptical, but if you told him not to kiss you, and he did anyway, and he is telling you he loves you...he just wants to get in your underoos sweetie. a man will tell you that he will marry you just to get in your pants if he wants it bad enough. if you still wanna talk to him, then make it clear you will not be moving any faster than you are ready to, no kissing, no sleeping together nothing. if he magically stops texting you, you know what is real motivation was.
2006-12-15 19:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, this sounds like a classical child molester situation. Everything you are saying is ringing a bell for me, it's so terrible.
You are probably under age and he is probably older, most likely a lot older than you are. When I was 13 this happened to me, but over the phone, back in the old days.
This 23 year old guy was pursuing me and I didn't realize what was really happening until it was almost too late. He told me he loved me, wanted to kiss and hug me, always touching me, squeezing me, calling me, giving me jewelry and gifts.
Luckily for me, my dad and uncle saw me rollerskating with him and they threatened to beat him up if they ever saw him again. I was young a foolish, but my dad was smart enough to see that there was something wrong with this guy, and he probably wanted to have sex with me eventually. Scary......
Anway, how could a stranger love you, and how could you believe him? Sounds like a bunch of BS to me. Be careful
2006-12-16 03:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by rchl782 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop meeting people thru textmate. That's the dumbest thing I ever heard of.
2006-12-16 03:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're both young and extremely inexperienced. What you need to do is just enjoy it for what it's worth, because he's not going to be around your entire life.First kiss heh? That's cool. Have you ever heard the phrase-- "He won't be the best, he won't be the worst, but he will be your first"? You have many more men and relationships to come, SO ENJOY IT SISTER.
2006-12-16 03:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves how you are nievely believing him and letting him touch you. HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU! Don't let him take adantage of you, and I'd through that textmate thing in the garbage.
2006-12-16 03:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Howiegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be honestly intrigued by you but i really doubt that anoyone can fall in love over a week of communication and only one meet i would really take my time with this one get to know him and then deside just take your time and mabye dont belive it so much right now
2006-12-16 02:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by nick z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm..
BE CAREFULL!!!!
You do not know this guy, just what he tells you over a text message..
He barely knows you, so Im positive there is no love...you can not be in love with a stranger..
If you want to be his friend,fine..but go slow and protect yourself untill you know the man behind the messages...
Do not be confused, use your brain and your instincts..we all have this ability, but some of us let our emotions, lonliness, or physical attraction take over in a bad way...
2006-12-16 03:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! if it were me, I'd say he was full of bull and just trying to get you in bed as soon as possible. Has he given hints about having sex? My guess is yes. But you never know, so wait it out and find out if he is sincere.
2006-12-16 03:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Running Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, easy come easy go.
If he loves you he should prove this before start kissing & u shouldn't let him kiss u.
If he gets what he want easyly he is going to leave u easily. Let him first proves that he loves u truly. Give urself sometime before falling in love & don't beleive him easily.
2006-12-16 03:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by mar_hamood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stalker
2006-12-16 02:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋