I've known him for years now and we are friends and stuff but i still can't get over our break-up(it was a really long time ago too)... i dont know if it's because he's like the first boyfriend i had (and the only -_-") or if it's his great personality or what. All i know is that im not falling for his looks. If it's possible could you also give me tips on ways to finally get over him or something? Thanks if you replied.
2006-12-15 18:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by vividdreams_xo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
erm okay well HE broke it off with ME. Not the other way around.
2006-12-15 18:51:46 · update #1
It could be because he was your only and one boyfriends with a great personality .You have to try to meet new people which I know you heard many times but I honestly can say that it wont be easy to find someone to replace with him.Once it took me 2 years to get over my boyfriend ,I still sometimes think about him but life goes on and on..live your life and keep him in your heart as someone special who you have many sweet memories with ,it's better than being with him and getting hurt.
2006-12-15 19:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy. That is the first answer.
Now, going to the most important matter, "first love" will always have a special place in your heart. It is because he was the first person whom you shared special moments with and all the firsts in a relationship were experienced with him.
You may have just missed those days when you two were still romantic and you are just confusing it to be falling for him again. It is very normal.
Getting over our first love is always tricky and takes some time. It is because we tend to believe he is the only person who can give us the best in a relationship.
However, you need to move on and be content with what is left of it - the friendship.
The most important thing to do in moving on would be:
1.) Acceptance of the fact that he is your ex-bf now.
2.) That you are now entering a new phase in your life and there will be more relationships that will come your way.
3.) He is not the only person who can give you happiness. There are other people who you will meet in your life who would want to share moments with.
It's a matter of letting your mind put logic into things and tell your heart to take a back seat for the moment.
No one else can help you but yourself.
You can do it!
2006-12-16 03:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by nomamalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the main reason is that he is your first bf. Normally our first love is very memorable but if the relationship is already broke off, I think you should learn to let go of the relationship and move on with your life.
You should mixed around with your friends and not be too eager to find a bf at this stage. Thing will eventually turn better for you in days to come
2006-12-16 06:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! you are crazy. Maybe you are not attached , being a single and lonely that why you still think of him. Go out and socialise, so as to get another better man to replace him, simple.
2006-12-16 03:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the friendship. You're never going to get over him if you're around him all the time.
2006-12-16 02:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think u still like him. u get get in touch with him and ask him whether he would like 2 lunch with you, like to remember the past memories. then during ur lunch u may ask him if he still loves u or wants 2 go out with u ( make sure he doesn't have another girlfriend)
2006-12-16 02:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's so great, why'd you break up with him? Think about THAT!
2006-12-16 02:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋