I'v been with my girl for over a year and it seem as of lately we dont talk as much as we used to or even go out anymore but when we do we are never alone like before when we first started going out. I feel like she treats me more like a friend than her boyfriend. Does this mean our relationship is ending? What do i do?
2006-12-15 18:44:11 · 11 answers · asked by Styliztik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try being married; then you can't just walk away that easily. Do you honestly think that hot, thrilling, passionate love just lasts forever??? Talk to her about her feelings. People just need to communicate more. Nothing ever stays exactly the same anyway.
2006-12-15 18:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are unhappy, you have to find a way to communicate with her, or you are only going to get depressed over the whole matter. Make dates with her where you guys are alone. Tell her you want and need some alone time with her, and see what she says. She should treat you like her best friend. The relationship doesn't have to end, but it is at a point where it is going to take work. Are you up for the challenge or do you just really feel like you should find someone else you can communicate more freely with? Don't worry if you've been in a relationship for over a year. The time element doesn't matter. Your happiness is the main thing. Good luck!
2006-12-16 02:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean it's ending. You're falling into a routine. Every relationship does after a while. I had this problem with my boyfriend. Get out of your comfort zone... Do something neither of you has done... a night at the opera... something out of the norm for you two... that way, you're each other's comfort zone. It will bring you closer. Surprise her with a handwritten love note at work... or flowers asking her for an after work rendevous somewhere other than home. Spice up your love life. It worked for us. We're still happily together after 6 years.
2006-12-16 02:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by DrkCrwlr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her over and suprise her by making dinner and candle lights and then ask her about this question it's no use if u just sitting around doing nothing cause she might be taking steps by steps not rushing things at the moment.
2006-12-16 02:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Zexyana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her the same as you always have, and you'll lose her. Give her special attention, let her know that YOU don't want this relationship to end, and better yet, TALK TO HER. Maybe she doesn't relize she's doing it.
2006-12-16 02:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Howiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say not really you just have to ask her that same question you ask here maybe she is very bussy to me i don t think that she will like you no more i think she still like you but ask her that question and see what she say. Tell her that you feel dispointing that will not communicating and going out often we should start doing that.
2006-12-16 02:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by telling her instead of the yahoo community and see how she feels.
2006-12-16 02:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if feelings have changed, talk about it. Why do people ask advice on personal issues from strangers when they haven't even asked their loved one
2006-12-16 02:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u dont ask her?? Better u ask her so u can know it clearly
2006-12-16 02:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and get a new one. good luck
2006-12-16 02:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋