We've gone about two months, and I know his friends and family really well. The last couple weeks we've hung out once or twice a week because finals are freaking me out. He's studying a lot as well. We go to different schools, so we obviously need to take care of priorities.
Last Saturday he invited me to hang out at his house. I guess he didn't tell his parents I was over. So then around 3am, he tells me that I need to leave by 3:30am, since he had work at 11am. I couldn't find a place to stay, and since I couldn't go back home, he let me stay until 6:30 and then I had to leave.
We text everyday, we IM everyday, but he's kinda needy, I guess? He always complains about how we don't see each other, and how I don't share my feelings. So this week he texted me and asked me if I wanted to be "friends with benefits." When I got upset he texted that he really liked me but I didn't share my feelings and he never knew what I wanted out of the relationship.
What does HE want?
2006-12-15 17:47:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered your own question here in the last paragraph. Listen to what this guy is asking of you! He not cheating on you he simply wants you to express how you feel about him. Be open. The only reason he's asking for friends with benefits is because he's feeling like you are emotionally isolated and not feeling it or him emotionally. If you want to keep this guy around open up to him and tell him how you really feel. If you don't you're going to lose him. You should actually be happy you found a guy who wants you to be emotionally involved most guys feel we are too emotionally driven and are asking us to turn it down a notch. It's not about getting into your pants at all this is actually about emotional connection and that's a really good start.
2006-12-15 18:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 12:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they say love is more than an emotion, its a state of mind.
so i think love is a sick joke, and the combination of things that happened and failed to happen leaves me more cynical than before. ultimately, one has to walk alone in this journey called life.
2006-12-15 17:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wants you to share your thoughts with him. it sounds gay, but really. like things that other people dont know. how you feel about things. what makes you mad about people. what makes you happy. he wants to know what songs make you sad and what movies make you laugh. and to some people that stuff is not important, but to others, it is. maybe you should try opening up to him.
2006-12-15 17:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get into your pants just like every guy. don't trust someone thats not trustable believe me...
2006-12-15 17:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt that he is cheatin, but i have to say, its a bold move to ask for friends with benefits, that probably means that he think u are kind of off emotionaly but the physical/sexaual part he thinks is working great, so, i think that it is hard for him cuz u go to different schools, just do wat u think is right and see wat happens, if he likes u then he will go with it
2006-12-15 17:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by mr. a i dunno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused too! I'd be Straight with him!
2006-12-15 17:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the problem! Idiot, their is no problem! You are just over reacting!
2006-12-15 17:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want from him??
2006-12-15 17:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by MissFretNot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's cheating probably!!
2006-12-15 17:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by CuRiOs OnE12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋