This guy and I have dated on and off & the only reason we break up is because of stupid little fights. Our personalities are very similar so we clash, but we keep coming back to each other. I have a sister that says that her and her husband did the same thing while they were in high school & are now very happy. Another sister of mine and her boyfriend keep breaking up & getting back together & seem to be in love, in spite of all their problems.
2006-12-15 17:10:46 · 14 answers · asked by banana_monster_22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok to fight it's a normal process which takes heed along it's way. Everyone fights parents,you,friends, my friends and i fight and we are still best bud ever we just forget about it the next day. but who cares? if he hits you when it comes to out of control like he gets angry out by hitting things per say people. stay away from him that is not a good thing so fights are normal just be careful and you know when you get married you fight too. so it just keeps going like the bunny rabbit. ok but fights are not good just try to make them better like say your sorry because you didn't know what you were saying. or just don't fight at all to keep the anger away from you ok?hope i gave you good advice.
2006-12-15 17:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sara R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having disagreements and little squabbles is one thing, but my cousin was one of these on again, off again people. She and her boyfriend finally decided to just get married, and that only lasted for a few years, because they just weren't suited to be life mates. I hope you can just decide this guy is a friend and open your heart to new possibilities before you get stuck in a divorce situation. I think you should just consider this guy a friend, and really start looking for someone you don't have tensions with. When the right person comes along, you will have stars in your eyes anyway. You won't be thinking of fighting at all. Good luck!
2006-12-16 01:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I refuse to read the details, in general fighting is healthy in any relationship. If you don't fight and let out your frustrations every now and then and pretend everything is ok the anger is going to build until you guys snap and say or do things you're going to regret.
2006-12-16 01:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think something was wrong with the relationship if NO fighting were going on. However, if the two of you have more negative interactions than positive ones, maybe something needs to change. Good luck!
2006-12-16 01:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Swedish Meatball 87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only fighting due to wnating what you want and him wanting what he wants and that is it, there is no love in this at all and it is so silly. Think about what you are fighting for and decide if it is really worth it to start a fight or not. love is a giving of 100
5 and not 50% / 50%
2006-12-16 01:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by tracey s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think that everyone fights in a relationship, and the making up is the best part.
2006-12-16 01:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard of a relationship where there isnt any squabbling. (I take it no one lays a hand on each other-I hope) Do your own survey of couples and ask them for yourself.
I know in any relationship there is a lot of work and in my relationship, its more work for my wife than for me but in the morning she is still there sleeping next to me so.....I guess Im still worth it. :)
2006-12-16 01:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal love means to get through the rough patches in life they should care about u and be there for u.
2006-12-16 01:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by iLuVjOrDaN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No settled relationship is good if you Don't fight! Good luck! ⥠Hockeygurlâ¥
2006-12-16 01:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by Blaaah ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who don't fight over what they believe are compromising their own beliefs and the relationship is doomed.
2006-12-16 01:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋