I have a girlfriend but it's a long distance relation, she's comin' to visit for the holidays. She arrives Saturday. The thing is i'm falling for a girl that likes me very much that i recently met. What to do? I mean i like both of them and besides my girlfriend is not gonna be arround for about a year, after the holidays.
2006-12-15 17:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by Eastpack69 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be honest with your Girlfriend. Obviously the long distance relationship is not working for you...because if it was you would not be falling for someone else. She is probably a great girl but the distance is a problem....who knows this new girl may be exactly what you are looking for.
2006-12-15 17:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by alwayssmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what ive heard; long distant relationships dont usually last. you may very well like your girlfriend but someone else was able to snag your attention in the meanwhile. you might wanna cool it with both for a little bit till you gather thoughts. the worst case scenario is you not having either girl and them both hating you or you could have one good friend and a girlfriend. you gotta make a choice, just make sue its a wise one. i would end the relationship w/ girlfriend and just remain friends while you get to know this other female who you can do more than just communicate with if you choose.
2006-12-15 17:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around!!! If what you are planning to do is how you wish to be treated in the future then be prepared for the heartache. I don’t think that you are truly committed to the relationship you are in because of the distance and infrequency of you guys being able to meet. I think the best bet for you is to grow some courage and let this young lady go. That way can freely pursue a new relationship.
2006-12-15 17:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by heavenly_bluestar1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's very hard to imagine if you get caught. i know a friend who've been there & she shared me how terrible the experience, especially if true love is around even in just one party. Guys probably want to experience things as such but be careful. Someone gonna be hurt if the other party is damn in love with ya.
2006-12-15 17:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by leonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your gf know so that you can make that decision together. Long distance relationships are tough
2006-12-15 17:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say play it cool, after all she been away for a few months and probably seeing someone else.
2006-12-15 17:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by bigstevesfriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pick one girl, dont play them both, eventually they'll find out. Then you wont get to be with neither one of them.
2006-12-15 17:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your current girlfriend that you've fallen for someone else...then you can be free to move on and you won't hurt her.
2006-12-15 17:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by jenuhhilo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop, pick one now, before they both get hurt, and you're left with no-one.
2006-12-15 17:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Julie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will cheat on at least one of them unless you break it off with 1 beforehand.
2006-12-15 17:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋