is it a right way to approah a girl .what do u think about it? having sex before marriage is good or after marriage. if yes, why?.....no, why? this can be answered by men or women. what guys ideas about this thing?
2006-12-15 16:42:11 · 20 answers · asked by harini h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys think it enhances the relationship (I feel it changes the dynamics)
personally, not a good idea, as it colors one's opinion of things
2006-12-15 16:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 1⤋
I think, it's not 100% of the time that a couple couldn't or shouldn't have sex before marriage. But one thing: be sure that you are emotionally ready for sex and that the guy is emotionally committed to you. Because for most guys, sex has very little to do with emotional love and for most girls, sex has everything to do with emotional love. If you are 150% sure that if you're genuinely in love with him and you're 150% sure that he's committed to you, that he GENUINELY loves you, and his father and mother are honest people (because that will tell you a lot about the chances that he will be honest with you), THEN talk about it more - and decide later after you've talked about "it" and about a system of birth control and about his ideas of you together as a relationship.
It can be a great thing to wait until marriage for sex, but it's not a shameful thing not to wait, if you're sure about all the things above that go with sex. Sex is a beautiful part of something larger and even more beautiful.
2006-12-15 16:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ilmari_Karjalainen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we in the 1950s? So say you never meet the right guy does that mean you stay a virgin for life? Ridiculous.
Guys like to have sex anytime 24 hrs a day. We are constantly horny period. At least most of us are.
2006-12-15 17:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is anything wrong with it. Guys aren't the only ones who enjoy sex.
I think that if both partners want it and both are consenting adults then it's ok. I didn't wait till marriage to do it, and I'm happy.
Do what you want, just as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else.
2006-12-15 16:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Manx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex before marriage is wrong and could ended up not wearing a condom and having a kid that u probably wouldn't want at your age because they're horny and need a girl to have sex wit after marriage is better
2006-12-15 16:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by sexygirl4adam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a Christian, I believed and wanted to wait until marriage. Then I messed up and lost my virginity to a loser who just wanted it all the time. I broke it off, after a year I met a guy who I truly loved, I wanted to wait until marriage, because I truly cared for him and didn't want to mess up the relationship to be just meaningless sex. But truly get to know him. I married him, and am so happy I waited until marriage. Trust me, when you are christian, you have moral and biblical convictions that keep you from making mistakes, however since you allready had it you still want it (naturally). I really wanted to have sex with my fiancee, but I decided to discipline myself and wait. If you really love her, respect her and wait. Don't pressure her and don't put yourselves in those situations either.
2016-05-22 22:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of us guys just like to have sex....before, during and after marriage. However, to remain chase for his bride is quite a loving noble thing to do. If he is willing to be that way for her, its quite indicative how true of a husband he will be.
2006-12-15 16:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before marriage is okay between consenting adults. It's like taking a test drive.
2006-12-15 16:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys have lots of hormones that make them want to have sex. If a girl wants to wait until she gets married then that is her choice. It is a very personal decision and ethics and morals are important to a lot of people.
2006-12-15 16:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by compendious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think sex before marriage is acceptable...
2006-12-15 16:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
to me its all about how u was raised and what u believe in. i have had sex with my boyfriend and we are not married yet but wil be soon. i wanted to wait till i got married but didnt i was rushed into things u might say. however my grandmother (god rest her soul) didnt believe in that at all so its all on how u was brough up
2006-12-15 16:49:26 · answer #11 · answered by Brooklyn Mae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋