Is being a virgin at age 18 attractive to women. Its not that I am ugly, it's just I choose not to have sex (waiting till marriage).
I know alot of guys will ridicule this question and me calling me all sorts of derogatory names, but it's the truth.
This is a dumb question, I know, but it's hard to be-what seems to me- to be the only guy who hasn't slept with a girl. I just feel so alone, ya know?
Any thoughts or opinions would be nice
2006-12-15 16:32:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a white male about 6'4" and 190 pounds. So tall and fairly thin, not hugely muscled. Just thought I would add this.
2006-12-15 16:34:01 · update #1
I'm a guy Last"MAN"Dancing and i won't ridicule you sir, good for you. You're not a cheap slut like me or everyone else out there! You have morales and stick with them, congratulations! (Until you get married and have no idea what you're doing of course...)
2006-12-15 16:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think sexual status has anything to do with being attracted to a guy. I'm 18. I'm a virgin. And I don't care what ANYONE thinks about that. Its my body, my decision. I guess thats how I've always been. Now..what would be attractive is that you are 6'4"..and tall guys are notorious for being good looking. :P So hang in there. There are girls out there that appreciate guys like you. ..like me for example.. lolz.
2006-12-15 17:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the kind of woman you are looking for. I'm not sure why you've chosen to wait, whether it's religious reasons or morals, but I think it is awesome! I commend you. There are not many of you men out there anymore. It shows that you are interested on getting to know who a woman is, not just treating her like an object of pleasure as many men do. I am an attractive and tall 22 year old and I wish there were more older men out there who were like you. Keep it up!It really is worth waiting. If you test drive all the cars, you'll always be comparing them, but if you only drive one, beautiful car, its going to drive like a dream. I hope that makes sense! Goodness! I'm comparing women to cars... I know how much you guys like them! (both)
2006-12-15 16:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Psychgirl35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is wonderful. I was rapped when I was 15 and I wanted to save it for marriage my husband had sex when he was 14( he said he didn't know what was going on ) so I kinda get un easy about it I feel odd sometimes.Including the guy who rapped me we've had the same # of partners and my hubby was my first by choice but to make it easier on u try to find someone who shares the same values as you do.
2006-12-15 16:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self respect is a good thing. Its not a turn on but it deffinetly catches eyes of deserving women. Women believe that if you dont respect yourself why would you respect them. And by the sounds of it you have alot of self respect. Lets hope you respect women just the same and if you do then your doing well..esspecially since your not doing it to be liked or noticed its just a personal thing. And who really gives a f**k about what other guys have to say about you, your you and your doing a good job. You obviously care more about them then their physical features. Thank god there is atleast one guy like you out there.
2006-12-15 16:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by to0_lo0ve_yo0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of girls like that in a guy because it means he hasn't been around. I think it makes it easier to tell if a guy is really into you and not in it just to sleep with her. So I would say it is attractive not weird like some people would say.
2006-12-15 16:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it`s what you want to do then go for it. The problem you`ll probably have is finding the right woman, I`m sure that there are some female virgins out there somewhere, but don`t hold your breath.
2006-12-15 17:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great..
No one wants a male slut who has been around more than a pair of old shoes..
Its sad how few guys want to keep it for the right person anymore..
My hubby was one untill he was officially with me ( as in an exclusive couple )
We have been together since 1992 and have been married since 1996...
nothing for you to be ashamed of...
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
2006-12-15 16:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young. Give it a few years and the right lady will come along and you will suddenly find the problem has been solved.
2006-12-15 16:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know several guys that are saving themselves until marriage. I think it's cool && have so much respect for anybody that saves themselves for the person they love.
It's about what you think of yourself, not what others say.
I'm a virgin too && I'm twenty. && I have so much respect for myself && Am proud of myself. i don't think any of my friends are virgins...
2006-12-15 16:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by MuZzZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋