Theres this guy i like....and he seems to flirt with me or at least i think he is...he jokes around with me all the time....hugging and touching my hands....how can i get him?
2006-12-15 15:58:58 · 12 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres this guy i like...we are both 15....and he seems to flirt with me or at least i think he is...he jokes around with me all the time....hugging and touching my hands....but idk if he has a gf....how can i get him?
2006-12-15 16:05:06 · update #1
tell him how you feel and be yourself.
2006-12-15 16:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by DarkAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amber, I'm not sure how old you are. I know it can be really hard to be upfront when you like someone, but the advice the others offered about just telling him really is the best. He may like you too but be scared to make the first move because he might be rejected.
Just say things to him like, "I really like you. If you asked me out, I would definitely say yes." This puts the ball in his court, but it lets him know that you like him.
I would disregard the advice about the headboard. One thing I tell my teenage daughter is that she shouldn't get into a physical relationship unless she is prepared for that relationship to not last. The statistics aren't good, so why rush things and give your heart and body away so quickly? Slow and steady wins the race and if he is worth having he'll wait for you.
Good luck and hugs!
Lori
2006-12-16 00:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by lorilou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually wondering the same thing about a girl I'm friends with. If I were in his place, I'd feel more comfortable if you were real obvious. It's hard for guys to ask a girl to be his girlfriend. Whenever he hugs you try kissing him. That usually gets the point across and he probably wouldn't mind, if you know what I mean...
2006-12-16 00:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not too young here but as a guy i'll tell you a secret. You already got him!!! Guys dont act like that unless they really like a girl
Hang out with him more and get to know him better. I'm not 100% sure the touching thing is a good thing might be downer of you get to know him better and find you dont really like him,... I hope he at least, considers your reactions; i.e., its a mutual thing.
Take care.
2006-12-16 00:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him how you feel too early because you don't really know if he likes you.
Flirt with him and see how it goes from there. Be comfortable around him, show him that you don't mind his presence.
The cliche "tell him how you feel" answers are really pissing me off because half of these people wouldn't practice what they preach if they were in your position. Just do some flirting, use your body langauge and if he likes you, I guarantee you if you do what I just told you, you'll have in no more than a couple months.
2006-12-16 00:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda drop a few hints and flirt right back. Ask him out if your bold, wait for a while if your shy. But do make him notice you by being yourself.
2006-12-16 00:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you act yourslef, dont pretnd to be someone your not, that will turn them away quicker then you can say your own name. try to hang out with him more, and be able to talk with each other, you never know he might like you to.
2006-12-16 00:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by flbabyy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him bump your head against the headboard for a little while
2006-12-16 00:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Body language! Touch his chest, lick your lips, touch his chin, his lips. Touch him in places that say, "I want you!"
2006-12-16 00:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by oc245 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on ahead and tell him how you feel. You can do it!
2006-12-16 00:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself he should like u for who you r and if he doesnt its his fault
2006-12-16 00:03:32 · answer #11 · answered by Goaliegirl3333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋