I am 13 years old, and I have this boyfriend, who I dont get so see alot. And I am scarred he might be flirting with other girls.Than, there is my ex, and he has been staring at me, and he keeps on defending me.I am not trying to be a two-timer,but I really dont know who to choose.I like them both the same right now.So, please help me.
2006-12-15 15:38:57 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A b/f an ex and you are 13...maybe it's time to spend time with yourself making you the person you will be for the rest of your life. You are already showing signs of becoming one of those women that MUST have a man in her life.
It's a fact...friends come and go, men come and go and husbands come and go and through all that there is one constant...you! Choose you...and don't worry about tying yourself to one man/boy right now...there is nothing sexier than someone that is SELF-assured.
You will or maybe already are tired of hearing the old saying "life is too short" but here it is said in a different way with help from Keith Adams..."You only live once - you're a long time dead - so you may as well have fun while you're alive!" I say, ENJOY!
2006-12-15 16:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Heart, at 13 years of age, having a boyfriend, and an ex already, I would say you are a very popular girl and you have plenty of time to get involved in a relationship. You are confused right now because you are insecure. We can give you a reply as to what we think of the situation but we can't decide for you because the power of free choice is yours only! And some day you will understand life better and acquire wisdom through your experiences with boys. You've got your whole life ahead of you. How great to be 13 years old!!! Think about it! That is something a retired person like me does not have! LOL
Don't be scared about your bf flirting with other girls, he probably does and this is normal for a young guy, just as it is completely normal for a thirteen years old sweetheart to be insecure about it!
There is no rush. Just be happy and enjoy every day living in the present. That's the secret for happiness. Live and let live dear Heart and you will see, the most wonderful days will be ahead of you.
Have a merry Christmas and a very happy new year 2007.
2006-12-16 00:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, at 13 years old, you should be worried about algebra and english lit. Those boys are just a drop in the bucket to you now. I know you feel weird about it and all, but if the current bf is gonna flirt, what are you gonna do to stop it? Absolutely nothing. If he's gonna flirt, you don't need him. Let him go.
Spend some time with your girlfriends and hit the movies or some place fun.
2006-12-15 23:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by CricketB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well i know alot!
lets see
first of all
i think you should break up
with your resisant boyfriend
cause long distance relationships &
if you dont get to see him much is bad.
it makes your love for both of you
go down and then he will start
flirting with other girls
this is true
cause this happened to me.
weird!
but true
you should meet new guys.
and stay true
tell your boyfriend that
your sorry but you gotta
end you and me
its over.
tell him that you didnt
mean to hurt him say
you didnt feel that cnnection.
always works.
then say but can we still be friends
cause some guys get pissed off .
when you break up with them .
love ELLIE
good luck!
2006-12-15 23:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by mellll. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this depends. If your ex cheated on you, never take him back. if things just simply didnt work out and you think he has changed what he did wrong, then consider it. Also think about who you see more, get along better with, have the most fun with. Who ever you can be yourself around and who makes you happy is who u choose.
2006-12-15 23:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your ex right? Don't falsely accuse your current boyfriend is you still like your ex. Just admit to him that you made a mistake and you want to end things. You can do it! Just make sure that you don't go back and forth with it.
2006-12-15 23:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f I was in this situation I would date them both, I mean your next boyfriend is too far away to know right and your ex is now missing what he had.
2006-12-15 23:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by adgshanice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you know how they say that your first is always your best i think that you should see who loves you the most not saying that you should go back to your first but you should let him defend you and what ever else and if you find out that your boyfriend is cheating with his ex you should go back to your first and see how he treats you
2006-12-15 23:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by KKSLTER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!
this sounds a lot like what I had to do 3 months ago.
but I didn't have to choose b/c my ex wanted his bestfriend and me to be happy even though it made him sad.
but anyways just talk it out with both of them and tell them how you feel even if it means loosing one of them or both
good luck ;)
2006-12-15 23:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id personally give th ex another try girl hes fallen all over you and the new doesnt sound like the rit boyfriend
2006-12-15 23:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋