i'm a shy guy and tired to be single..i'm affaid to approach a girl that i like in the metro,at the club.....how can i know that a girl is interested in me the first time she see me???please help me
2006-12-15 15:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by traore t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . there's no reliable way to know for sure if the girl likes you. You just have to go up to her and talk. You will be able to tell if she likes you by her reaction to your approach. If she seems to enjoy your company, ask for her phone number after a bit of chit-chat. Then call 5 to 9 days later to make a date if that goes well. If she seems reluctant to give you her number, you may as well forget about her. And be persistent. Average guys who know what they're doing have about a 10% success rate. Good luck!
2006-12-15 15:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a friend who also knows her that could help you out by kind of starting up a conversation with her when you're there? That would give you an opportunity to talk to her on a "safe" level. Then if you sense that the might like you, you can say something like "Talking to you has been fun. If you wouldn't mind giving me your number, maybe we could talk some more later." The very worst that could happen is that she could say no, and then at least you'd know she wasn't interested without being embarrassed. You could always offer to buy her a drink or ask her to dance. If you're too shy to do that, make friends with one of her gal pals ...that will also give you opportunities to talk to her. Good luck.
2006-12-15 23:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no mac daddy, but if a girl likes you, most of the time she will let you know . It could be suddle hints,so you just got to look for them. I think that the best way to ask a girl for her number is to start talking about a subject she is really into and then tell her how you would like to talk to her more about "whatever" and then go for the number. This will work 99 percent of the time even if she like you only just a little. My 2 Cents
2006-12-15 23:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by so_ez2bme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a bouquet of flowers and dedicate your love to her. You have to be brave!
2006-12-15 23:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by wonderful girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go up to her casually, and say hey, wats up...could i have ur phone #, so we could chat sometime.......
2006-12-15 23:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by I wish i was invisible♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋