My best friend hits on my new boyfriend and i have told her to stop and she wont i dont want to lose her friendship!!! HELP!!
2006-12-15 15:13:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WOULD SUGGEST YOU TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ONE MORE TIME & GIVE HER A CHANCE TO SALVAGE THE PROBLEM. WELL ALL I CAN SAY IS TO BE STRAIGHT FORWARD AND HONEST . IT'S NOT THE BOY THAT'S THE ISSUE @ HAND IT"S THE LACK OF RESPECT YOUR RECEIVING FROM A PERSON YOU THOUGHT WAS YOUR BEST FRIEND.
GOD BLESS & GOOD LUCK
2006-12-15 15:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not your best friend, half friend, a little friend if she is hitting on the guy you are involved with. You need to let her go. She's more like an enemy. I hope haven't told her too much. There is no way my bestfriend would hit on my man. She respects me, herself, and our friendship. There are just some things you don't do. I don't think you are afraid of losing your man you are afraid of losing your friend. What you should do is examine why this friendship means so much to you, what does it give you that you aren't giving yourself. I feel that you need to do some serious soul searching.
2006-12-15 15:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by The Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe thats a friendship worth loosing! I mean u should dump the guy 2 and ur friend! If she was a real friend she would of stopped flirting wit ur boyfriend when u told her 2! And maybe just maybe if u still want ur boyfriend and ur best friend u need 2 tell ur boyfriend he has 2 pay more attion 2 u and not ur friend!and u need 2 tell ur friend 2 get a boyfriend and stop trying 2 steal urs! but if she doesnt stop, i would beat her down! then u need 2 slap ur boyfriend 4 flirting back at her! so do u get wat im sayin gurl! Dump ur friend and boyfriend or try 2 work things out! but if that doesnt work beat ur friends butt and u need 2 take care of ur man honey and dump that fool! he will miss a good thing once its gone!
2006-12-15 15:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by CeCeDD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience you need to tell her that you are for real or you need to get rid of one of them. One day you could come home to them in bed together . I don't care how much he says that he wouldn't do it if she is there and you are not it will happen. I can understand the friendship thing but if she really was your friend she would stop like you asked her to. Do something soon or you will end up hurt with no best friend and no man. Do play cuz females are scandalous.
2006-12-15 15:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you don't want to lose her as a friend, but what type of friend hits on your boyfriend after you have already let her know you would prefer her not to? I would try to talk to her one more time and let her know how uncomfortable it makes you feel, and that it needs to stop. I would also try to limit the time you are with both of them together until you know her true intentions.
2006-12-15 15:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, your best friend is hitting on your new boyfriend. Even if you told her to stop, she won't. Weird. What kind of best friend do you have? If she's your best friend, she should have respect and leave him alone. Make sure your boyfriend isn't flirting back with her.
2006-12-15 15:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your best friend, she should not be hitting on your boyfriend. She not only is disrepectful of you and your friendship, it's also unkind.
Sit her down and ask her if she values your friendship and if she does, she'd have to stop the annoying behavior.
2006-12-15 15:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i never put guys before friends... for example, i like my best friends brother... she's been tryin to fix us up for the past two years and we found out this summer... but neither one of us wants to make a move b/c we're afraid of her and i's friendship... so i'd rather keep our friendship than let a boy get in the way even though i like him insanely! good luck but tell her to back off... b/c she's not being a real friend if she's doing that...
2006-12-15 15:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a true friend if she hits on your boyfriend. Also, your boyfriend is just wasting your time and your love because he's already cheating on the early stage of your relationship.
Dump both of them, they're not worth it.
2006-12-15 15:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why and how could you first of all call her your best friend. And what would you miss having a Friend like this? The dishonesty and disrespect. This is not the way a true friend acts. you need to figure out what a real friend is, she is not your friend. Friends do not do this to their friends. God bless****
2006-12-15 15:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋