I don't normally get depressed much at all but there are to many questions i need answers to now. I'm having trouble in college and i might be suspended for a semester cause of my grades. I just met this girl and we were working toward a relationship and she told me she's not ready. She said she would let me know when she's ready but she wants to be friend for now. She goes to my college and im stressed about my grades if im still in or not. what should i do?
2006-12-15 15:12:43 · 5 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Q. I don't see too many questions in your question that needs anwsers. I think you should do a little prioritizing.
No.1 Your well being, spiritually, emotionally, physically...etc
No.2 Finishing out what you have started in school.
No. 3 Choosing the right woman for yourself.
Solution: If you are a Christian the Word of God says in
Matthew 6:33 "Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
take some time to read it you have a chance.
2006-12-15 15:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Changed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man look, stay focus on school. The girls will come later. As for your grades don't give up man. If you got to go for a semester come back stonger next time. I tell you, you do not what to be without a degree this days. Life is cool on a person without a degree. Dont be stress you can be in worst situations like facing 20 yrs in prison are something like that. Now thats stress what you are going through is a walk in the park. Stay focus on your life and you will be fine. LATER
2006-12-15 15:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Goldfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the girl for now. Just be her friend and maybe she will come around later. She may be just as stressed as you are with school. Do your best right now to get your grades up. I don't know about for you but for me my semester is coming to a close so we both need to get off of Yahoo answers and hit the books. Good luck and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-15 15:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counselling to deal with the depression. avoid the girl because she's messing with your head -- whether she means to or not. make a clear plan for what you will do if you are suspended for a semester (eg. get a part time job and study at night). talk to your prof about what you can do to improve your grades.
2006-12-15 15:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by sally p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Q, find out where your weaknesses are by talking with your professors, and TELL THEM that you need help......They can get you teacher's aides or grad assistances to help you to do better.......Secondly, ask for a progress chart from your professors every 3 months so you know exactly how you are doing.....I had to do this when I went to school, and it helped immensely......Remember, dear, that college is overwhelming to begin with, and you are not the only one in this situation........Also remember, that there are people out there who will be more than willing to assist you if you only ask....Take care, hun..........
2006-12-15 15:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋