Looking into morality.
2006-12-15 15:07:45 · 18 answers · asked by BigPappa 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, I'm not asking if you have morals, but it seems so many Christians are divided on this as well.
Anyway, wanted it from a portion of the population and, I know, that that is ethical.
2006-12-15 15:13:55 · update #1
For me, I would say "yes." I can't make judgements about everyone.
Everyone has the random thought from time to time, but as an ongoing thing, for me it would take away from my relationship with my husband. I wouldn't want him doing that and so I wouldn't do that to him.
Your affection goes where your thoughts are. If I put energy into my relationship with him, rather than a fantasy world, it makes our marriage better.
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2006-12-15 15:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Black Parade Billie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual fantazy is excatly what the words are saying....fantasizing is the greatest way of satisfaying your brain and making you feel senzual. The problem begin when all u do is fantasizing and not being able to focus on relationship and the other person u are with feels as outsider ......fantasies are beautifull, great, enormous way of doing things in your head ..but only in your head...and maybe there will come day when you will find a person who gon'na be your only fantasy and make you fulfill all of your fantasies together.
2006-12-15 15:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by joy_lol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good for the libido. What's good for YOUR libido will be good for your partner's libido as well. In other words, if you're getting all excited thinking about something, your partner will get excited just knowing your excited. Then, the real fun begins.
Besides, I think it's wrong NOT to use our brains to fantasize about stuff. The brain is in our heads to be used by us -- not to be stuffed full of everyone else's thoughts or directions.
Anyway - who are you hurting? Nobody.
2006-12-15 15:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by CricketB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a fantasy could be a bad thing, unless it became an obsession. Morally, I don't think fantasizing about Hugh Jackman is a problem whatever--not bad for society, not bad for me, and Hugh knows nothing about it. :-)
2006-12-15 15:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is this only a question to athiests?
As a christian, I don't believe that fantasizing about someone is a bad thing.
2006-12-15 15:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by mesquitemachine 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not an Atheist, and really I don't follow any certain belief system....I am ALL of the "rest" of the religions out there, though....really...I have no certain set of beliefs....but I do believe in God....I know you don't.....and I hope you didn't mind me giving you my opinion.....I think that fantasizing about somoene is only human....
2006-12-15 15:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what people.
Sexually fantasizing about your boss' wife isn't good for anyone.
Sexually fantasizing about Lindsay Lohan is good for everyone.
2006-12-15 15:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Eldritch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not that I know of. I think it healthy, if you didn't at least once in your life, there is DEFINATELY somethng wrong with you. Anyway, its not bad because we are only human, we have human needs and fantasties. do what you want, its a free world(mostly). Have fun, but be decent.
2006-12-15 15:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by bri b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
If it's your uncle, or Osama Bin Laden or a priest you're fantasizing about it's bad.
Otherwise it's normal, healthy and okay..
2006-12-15 15:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by lobotomyzd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is. Its good to have a dose of fantasy. As long as it doesnt become an obsession and one forgets that they have a life to live.
2006-12-15 15:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by ana_is_a_cat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋