OK so my ex- boyfriend is 25 and I'm 21. We dated for a month then HE ended it saying that he's "busy". Our relationship was very innocent, it never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. Neways, we both go to the same university, I'm an undergrad while he's a grad student. I was crossing the street and he called my name and we talked for a bit. At the end of the conversation he asked me "to give him a shoutout if I ever wanted to "hang out". I said said bye & walked away. That was a month ago & he never brought it up even on msn, thus I thought it was just fake. Today I got the biggest surprise, I logged on msn and he said hi right away. He asked me my plans for the winter break & I did, then he told me that he's gonna have a long break & travel. Then he said "we should meet up". I said sure & he asked me when was good for ME, I did, & now we're meeting up next week.He said he'll call me the night before. WHY does he wanna see me now?
2006-12-15 14:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this just a "hang out" for him or does he wanna try to get back together?
2006-12-15 14:58:22 · update #1
You ever hear the phrase "You don't know how good you had it until it's gone"? I think he's feeling something like that.
2006-12-15 15:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ H.K.K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you go into this meeting-up with him as if it were just a friend wanting to hang out. That way, if that is what HIS true intention is, you won't be setting yourself up for a big let down. IF you still care very much about him and are going to meet him with the hopes that he want to get back together....be very careful as he may just really want to get together as friends!! Maybe you should talk to him first and let him know that you are worried and would like for him to clarify from the get-go why he wants to meet up with you again. Tell him you need him to be totally honest so that you don't go into this blind or with lofty expectations only to get hurt! Be care Sweety...I'd really hate to see you set yourself up for a very hurtful fall! Good luck to you and remember, just be totally honest with him and assure him that it's OK for him to do the same! If you guys do meet up and it's all OK before hand...have a good time!!
2006-12-15 23:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by pillowtalk504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.He probably really likes you or he is in love in u.
Maybe for him is very hard to accept u being a virgin and he cant imagine not having sex till he gets married!! For man that is unacceptable. Think again u want to keep him or not,but don't rush if he loves u he'll wait if not u will find someone who can appreciate what u got
2006-12-15 23:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's thinking about it.
He obviously likes you but he probably doesn't want to hurt you by your finding out that he indulges in sex with other females.
His sex drive probably rules him and he can't help it.
He definitely sounds like he would love to have a permanent relationship with you but he CAN'T wait that long for sex.
If YOU can, then you'll probably have to come to terms with the fact that he'll wait for you but not sex free.
It's just my guess from what you have said.
Yes. I would say that's GOOD news!
2006-12-15 23:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has been busy and just now with things winding down for him he's realizing how lonely he is. Maybe you should give him another chance but guard your heart. Take it one date at a time.
2006-12-15 23:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by sallylip2000_ca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has something else on his mind other than "hanging out"
2006-12-15 22:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't really know that 1. i thnk that maybe he misses u and he wants 2 het back together with u, or maybe he was cheating on u, and so now he wants 2 get back 2gether with u so it seems like nothin happened, idk really but thats all i got! lol
2006-12-15 23:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by bri7298 rox!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think he's into you. i think you are probably reading way too much into this. he probably thinks you're over him and therefore you can hang out together.
2006-12-15 23:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by sally p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just call it quits and go on with your life. he is a strange one and maybe he thinks he can still have sex with you.let him go and find someone who will respect your wishes.
2006-12-15 23:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No idea. Better ask him
2006-12-15 23:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Albert T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋