my fiance wants nothing more than to go out with his guy friends all the time and not stay at home and be with me and the kids.
I am not talking just going to the gym he constantly is going to the bar..
I trust him but do not trust his friends they like to try and talk him into doing things...all of his friends are4 single and if they are married their wives always have single women around who like to hang all over him....
I am at my whits end with this problem and would really like some input on this....
please if you are a guy answering this give it to me from a male point of view and not a womans much appreciated
2006-12-15 14:47:12 · 4 answers · asked by butterfly32976 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot serve two masters..for you will love one and hate the other ! This man is not ready for a relationship. He is still immature and will put you and kids through misery. Please, by experience ..RUN !!! Momma once said "you cannot untrain a dog to not eat eggs !! He is still playing I tried to change first husband and suffered four years..abuse and NEGLECT!! He wanted to have his friends and fun and put them before me all the time. It is not about looks and failure even though he may try to blame you for his running around. I have seen this happen to the "best women and beautiful and decent". The problem is not you it is HIM!! YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM !! Bars are meat markets to pick up partners.
2006-12-15 15:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wud confront ur fiance n say u wud really appretiate it if he stayed home once n a while n helped take care of ur children n that u miss him. I'm assuming that ur fiance is going out a lot because he's about 2 get married n that's a huge comitment and is trying 2 have the most of his fun now while he still can. I can definently c y ur unhappy about it but u cud either confront him, go out n have fun 2 and hire a babysitter or make ur husband watch them while u go out, or accept it n deal with it until u get married(which idn when that is) so good luck, i hope everything works out 4 u.
2006-12-15 14:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I had to answer this and I understand why you want a males point of view. Well I have a few guy friends so I get the "low down" so to speak.
Short Answer: He's misses the single life and he thinks that the grass is greener. If you trusted him you wouldn't be asking for advice. I'm pretty sure that a lot of men will agree with my statement.
2006-12-15 14:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes his buddies
2006-12-15 14:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋