OK so my ex- boyfriend is 25 and I'm 21. We dated for a month then HE ended it saying that he's "busy". Our relationship was very innocent, it never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. Neways, we both go to the same university, I'm an undergrad while he's a grad student. I was crossing the street and he called my name and we talked for a bit. At the end of the conversation he asked me "to give him a shoutout if I ever wanted to "hang out". I said said bye & walked away. That was a month ago & he never brought it up even on msn, thus I thought it was just fake. Today I got the biggest surprise, I logged on msn and he said hi right away. He asked me my plans for the winter break & I did, then he told me that he's gonna have a long break & travel. Then he said "we should meet up". I said sure & he asked me when was good for ME, I did, & now we're meeting up next week.He said he'll call me the night before. WHY does he wanna see me now?
2006-12-15 14:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this just a "hang out" for him or does he wanna try to get back together?
2006-12-15 14:42:41 · update #1
HE probably respects the fact that you have standards and sees you as great girl. just give him a chance and take thinks slow
2006-12-15 14:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be the first one to have Sex with you... Guys find it a challenge when girls want to save themselves for the wedding night.
Never let a guy know that you are a virgin or that you are saving yourself for your wedding night... You may end up going out with a guy who will not take no for an answer... Or one who will slip you a micky in your drink and you pass out then find out the next day that someone had sex with you but you can't remember who...
Figure out how to date without being a Challenge for a guy to try to have sex with...You will find out also that there are not to many men who will wait until the wedding night to have sex.. If you find one like this then most likely he is gay or bisexaul and wanting a family someday or he don't have the equipment to please a woman.....
2006-12-15 22:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has free time and needs someone to hang out with. I wouldn't be to excited about meeting him; if you have to analyze everything he says, you might want to ask his intentions or find someone who is a bit more straghtforward! I've been where you are now, and have learned to hook up with guys who REALLY want to spend time with me and are obvious about it. Hope it helps, good luck:)
2006-12-15 22:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I read this, I ask why do you want him..
Anyone who throws you out once does not deserve you at all. to many other great people out in this world who are better for you! don't be in a hurry. good luck to you
2006-12-15 22:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Russ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have been busy. You never know. Just fgo hang out with him and see how it goes. Found out why he's wanting to meet up with you now. Anyway, have fun.
2006-12-15 22:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to get together. :) Good Luck!!! Happy Holidays!
2006-12-15 22:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hurm.. well guys are an unpredictable species of the human race... who knows wat they' re thinking..gals are more or less the same.. we never know wat they' re thinking~ my advice is follow wat ur heart tells u to do~ he may have other motives to call u over to hang out.. he might want to get back together.. but its kinda sudden dont u think? and he might just wanna catch up on things as friends and he might want to do other stuf.. well.. its ur call~
2006-12-15 22:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by [MiA] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-15 22:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋