This guy I am friends with is always grabbing my legs and squeezing and poking my sides, back and stomach. He will say "You are so sexy and beautiful" and has also held my hand when we were walking out of a restaurant after eating. He told me that I am his best friend that is a girl. What's his deal? Do "just friends" act this way??
2006-12-15 14:39:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i know exactly how you feel I'm going threw the same thing i mean even him grabbing m legs and stuff but when i asked him out he was like "i don't want to ruin our friendship I've had many friendships to go bad from things like this" and that was about about 2 months go and last night he pretty much asked me out we were sitting in the grass under the stars and he put his arms around me and was telling me all these sweet things and i thought t was a normal night until he asked me out. so yeah I'm pretty much wondering the same question
2006-12-15 14:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by kind2all 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Twp possibilities and girls have to be aware of both:
He likes you, but is shy and is afraid you dont like him back, he wants you to know without him saying...if this is so, and you want to confirm it ask and confront cooly in the tone that you want to know...if he's seroius he'll try his hardest to show you his feelings and tell you...
the other possibility is he really does think your his friend but still thinks your pretty and hot, he's not seroius in wanting to love you...just want to touch and hold you, if he cant seem to say he wants to be your lover then admit it to him that your uncomfortable to be treated that way... a girl has to have her rights... its to be treated with respect....say that since you're just friends you want him to start acting like a friend and really mean it...dont let him take advantage of you...if he was a good friend he'll understand and try to stop...
it takes your next step to decide his feelings...
2006-12-15 14:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by rhea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO FRIENDS DO NOT ACT THAT WAY! I have a friend who has a best friend thats a guy. They would act like a couple sometimes, but they both had feelings for each other and they're both hurting themselves. It seems like he's playing with your emotions. don't let him do that!
2006-12-15 14:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants to be more than just friends. How do you feel about him? Maybe you might have something going there.
2006-12-15 14:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by christina21197 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no but best friend make beater lovers .because you can tell your friend anything in the world.
2006-12-15 14:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, he prbly doesnt want you to be just friends. talk 2 him about it.... my ex bf always was grabbing my a** and poking me everywhere and it was his way of flirting with me!!
2006-12-15 14:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by babiibrownie818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my male friends who are just friends do not touch or grope me. I think he has other things in mind. God bless****
2006-12-15 14:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i say 2 him u r more then friend to him
2006-12-15 14:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by lola :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he want to have sex but I need more info
2006-12-15 14:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly speaking i doubt it no just frlend acts that way .why don't u just speak to him &tell he is just a friend
2006-12-15 14:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋