So heres the scoop, I like this girl in 8 grade and i am in 10. Age difference of 2 years. She is more like my age than anyone in that grade. Normally i dont go for younger girls but this girl is amazing! i dont really like her yet but i can tell that im slipping seeing as i am hanging out with her more. She has a soso boyfriend, she doesnt really like him from what i hear and things may end soon. Her brother goes to my school and is in 11th grade, and i hear he is protective when his friends hit on her. Anywho, i really am starting to like this girl and everything about her (you know what its like, every little thing looks perfect to you about her etc)But, I just dont think her parents would allow it, let alone her brother, who would probably get really pissed at me, because ive only met him once but i see him around school all the time. I really want to be with her but maybe i should wait till shes in highschool (6-8 middle school, 9-12 high) any advice? should i go for it or wait?
2006-12-15 14:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonynnynynmous 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Oh the other thing is, I have been hanging out with her because she sort of friends with my sister who is in the same grade as her. I know, it sounds so weird huh, but its just one of those things, i really wish it was a different situation but i feel like romeo and juliet haha.
2006-12-15 14:46:20 · update #1
If I were you i would wait until she is at least in highschool also. It will look very bad if you are in highschool and "seeing" someone who is still in middle school.
2006-12-15 14:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by plantladywithcfids 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 or so... she's too young. You have a 99% chance of not having a good relationship and breaking up later (if it works out in the first place.)
Wait another year or two. Be cool, be nice and chill. Then, in a year or two, talk to her about how you feel.
It'll suck for awhile, but may be worth it in the end! Definitely, your chances of a long-term relationship will go up if you wait.
2006-12-15 15:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by MovetoLatinAmerica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait because If she has proper parents she wouldn't be allowed to have a "dating thing" going on with you at her age. Maybe just start being good friends. Besides when do you have time to see her so much that you are starting to like her when You two are in differnt schools???
2006-12-15 14:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by ccdispatch911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go 4 it! You don't want to have the same bad experience I did. So, I really liked this guy, right? And he liked me. So, we got to be bf & gf. (both in 5th. Long time ago) Then a week later they announce they were moving to Alaska! How great would that be? I say go for it before it is 2 late. Well, 11th grader would be gone, but so would she! Go get her Tiger! Tip: Offer to walk her home. Then "forget" to find Mr. 11!
2006-12-15 14:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until she's older. I think that it would be kinda freaky for a 10 grader just to come up to a eighth grader and just start hiting on her. I don't think you want her brother pissed either. If you hang out with her, let your relationship grow. Get to know her better...
2006-12-17 03:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Koolio Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my advice and try to wait until she is in gr.9 because:
1)you could look like a total perv to people and her parents and her brother
2)her brother will kill you.
3)her parents might call the cops.
That is only for very protective ppl.
2006-12-17 01:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till she's in highschool and then take her to the prom. 11th and a 9th grader is a lot better than 10th and an 8th grader.
2006-12-15 14:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFIANTLY WAIT until she is in high school! That time will pass before you know it. There is a big difference between high school age and middle school age.
2006-12-15 14:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by lovin life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why dont u wait till it ends with her bf then u can take it slow but not to slow... approach her brother, have some small talk...arrange to have a meeting with her parents...after youve asked her of course...get to know them some...basically get to know her relatives and her more.. =]]GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-15 17:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait ti'll she is older be her boyfriend
2006-12-18 01:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by newyorkgirl_92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋