2006-12-15 13:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by christina21197 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boss is a really nice lady. She is funny, has a wonderful laugh, and just beautiful. I just need to know if I'm stepping out of my place as an employee.
2006-12-15 14:15:08 · update #1
ok then i'll just assume that you are a man. work is a sticky situation but not impossible.
the first few work romances i had i just went for the sex, and after i got it and things went sour the fallout was unbearable. when you are the guy you are always in the wrong- so you have to tread lightly.
you need to approach with a straightforward conversation- something like 'i'd like to spend some time with you outside of work' and ask for something innocous like the zoo or a walk in the park. sounds hokey but if u go straight for dinner and a movie which gives off the i want to move into sex sooner than later vibe it could go bad. if u take it slow and she's reasonable you can recover from a breakup down the road.
in the not unlikely scenario that she says no u need to take the highroad dispite feeling rejected. plus u need to take no for no.
2006-12-15 14:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by stains 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they do not have a policy against employee/boss dating then just be straight forward and ask. Don't beat around the bush for you loose out.
2006-12-15 22:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by stuffed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't until he's no longer your boss. Get a new job, then ask him out. Or just get over him.
But having a crush on your boss sure makes it easier to go to work...
2006-12-15 22:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jean Talon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first.....get a job recommendation in writing from him. You will need it when you get fired for asking him out
2006-12-15 22:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tori 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont never mix business with pleasure. If your are secured in your position think of the consequences
2006-12-15 22:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you might consider keeping your personal life separate from business. It is a decision you could easily regret.
2006-12-15 22:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sky Salad Clipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playy it cool. Ask him for coffee or dinner or something simple like that. Ask him for a second, then just ask. Good luck!
2006-12-15 22:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow.. bad idea and never do that again... people thats works with u would think all bad things... stop it before u become a hater
2006-12-15 22:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by casie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the best idea.. do you like your job? if you date him and you break up. you may lose your job.
2006-12-15 22:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by mastermind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st, i don't think u should unless u know him THAT well. just casual date, coffee or dinner
2006-12-15 22:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋