so a guy tells me he likes me twice over a course of two years and also he tells me im pretty, often. then i call him one afternoon and ask him to lunch and then we go to a movie and then he doesnt call me and we still see eachother once a week. see, we're both christians and we're both leaders in a jr. high ministry at our church and then there is this other friend that we both talk to and i think that this friend knows something i dont know about this whole situation, i know he knows something becuz i asked if he did cuz he had this look on his face for two weeks, and i dont know waht he knows cuzi decided i wasnt ready to know and i was too embarrassed to be wrong and make everything aqward. well i guess what im trying to say is do i keep hoping he'll get a clue its okay to call me and ask me out or does he not like me, even though he didsay at the last jr. high thing that i was amazing in some casual way, which i dont understand how he does that.
newho plz tell ur thoughtsif ne.ty
2006-12-15 13:52:34 · 5 answers · asked by melly 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
He may be a bit shy
Talk to him and let him know how you feel
what do you have to loose
2006-12-15 13:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by snuggels102 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like Jr. High. Look, don't worry about it. Are you planning on marriage at this stage? If not, it is not worth losing sleep over. Dating is fine in high school as long as it is not too intense. A lot of drama happens during that time. I know that ALLLLLLL of my friends say that wish they had not dated in high school even. It should be a time to hang out or group date, but seriously, you are probably way too young to stress out about this crap. You probably won't listen to me, but I know. Trust me. Wait until you are at least 18 before starting a real relationship, otherwise you are setting yourself up for things like premarital sex and like I said before waaay toooooo much drama!
2006-12-15 22:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by The GMC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ask him. He told you twice. I think it would be nice for you to give him some feedback. It was akward for him at first too.
No one is a natural. =) Plus he wants to hear what you think.
2006-12-15 22:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by dvraptor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young.
One thing you need to learn about people is that they can say one thing and mean something completely different.
2006-12-15 21:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough.
2006-12-15 21:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by mcdougle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋