but how do I keep her from finding out? I am sure she would kick me where it hurts then dump me if she finds out and she is to good a thing to loose
2006-12-15 13:47:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you honestly think this, then you are not too much guy for one chick, you are not enough guy for a real woman, you are a little boy. If you are so insecure that you have to cheat on your girlfriend, then you don't deserve any woman until you grow up and grow balls. If she is such a good thing, then why do you disrespect her by being with other women? Not only do I hope she finds out, I hope she goes Lorena Bobbitt on you and chops off your lying penis, and then ***** your best friend and your dad. God...you are so weak it's funny....everyone who reads this is laughing at you. Such a sad excuse for a man. I **** things that are more man than you.
2006-12-15 14:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jen Armero 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right to realize that discovery is probably a reality. My question is if she is too good a thing to lose what the hell are you doing?
Can't have your cake and eat it too, honey. Better cool down and realize that every relationship comes with a few things lacking. If you must make them up by having a second then you don't need a full time relationship, you should still be dating around.
I suggest you either tell her and take your lumps (maybe she would agree to be a part-timer) or dump number two and quick. You may soon find yourself without either.
If you're asking strictly how to fool her, I can't help as I wouldn't put a sister in that spot. Plus, there just is no way to be that careful.
I think you're on the road to wreckage, darling. Best to turn off now.
2006-12-15 13:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd kick you where it hurts, and when you got over the pain, i'd do it again. A YEAR!?!? Too much guy for one chick? What kind of self-centered, conceited, stuck-up loser are you! You're cheating on your gf FOR A YEAR and you don't tell her. You deserve to be dumped because you are scum and a womanizer and you may think that you're God's gift to the world, but, in my opinion, I really hope that the gift comes with a reciept so that you can be returned and never seen or heard from again!!!!!
2006-12-15 13:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Traveler 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oviously U don't Love Her. So let her go! Ignore her (I mean totally cut her off!!) and let her find out gradually through friends or whatever. It will hurt her (and embaress u for a while but she'll get over it eventually).. but it would avoid a kick in the u know where. And then u can continue playing the field WITHOUT commiting to someone...but be careful...this can also blow up in ur face if u Really Meet that Special Girl.
2006-12-15 13:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Princepesa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off I am going to call you a jerk and 2nd tell you to quit cheating if she's to good to lose then you better stop. Besides I'm sure your going to lose her anyways, you feel quitly that why your asking this question and you should.You need to get some counseling and talk to your gf and change ur ways if you ever have children they will go threw hell because of you and your girls is to good for you, you are risking her health so my advice is either get out or stop cheating..It hurts to many.
2006-12-15 13:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you are not too much for one woman. Maybe you just haven't found a woman that fulfills all of your wants and needs. If you are feeling the need to cheat on the woman you are with then maybe you don't need to be with her. If you are just looking for a good time then you just need to be single so that you can be with as many women as you want. Do you think that it is fair to her? If you care any thing about her you wouldn't have to worry about her finding out, you would just tell her. Let her know how you feel and maybe how she could improve on the relationship...
2006-12-15 13:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Domo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love her you will leve her
its going to be her getting you where it hurts or some one else getting you there more like a brother or her mom or dad you
need to think of it an not be so selfish its not a good thing to be out doing you may one day get a STD an then what
some time down the road you will wish you never did that to her.
an you know that one way or another she will find out
2006-12-15 13:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by SGT SEXY MAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how you keep her from finding out? Make sure you come right home after sleeping with your girlfriend. Then you have to be sure you have a nice big hickey on your neck and some lipstick on your collar. Walk in and shout,"HONEY,COME GET YOUR BIG MAN!" Then just stand back and let the fun begin. Be sure to post a question when you get out of the hospital telling us how it went.
2006-12-15 13:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by ... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is too good a thing to loose why cheat on her. It's not that you're too much of a man for one women. it's either one or all of three things
1. You're afraid of commitment
2. You're not ready to commit.
3. You haven't found the right girl to make you commit.
2006-12-15 13:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Danny 88 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you are just not secure enough in yourself to be with one "chick". So you feel you need to show how much you are(n't) by messing around.... I feel for you. When it's time for you to have a real love in your life you may just screw that up. If you want to play around then play around but don't let any one person believe they are the only one in your life. Only punks do that... Good Luck
2006-12-15 13:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋