i am not that bad looking and i am not a super loser but i cant figure out why no guys i like every like me back! i ask my friends but i nvr get a real answer....what am i doing wrong?
2006-12-15 13:47:17 · 14 answers · asked by brunnetebabee89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is a disconnect...what things are on your checklist. Can you be so sure that a guy that perhaps 2 inches shorter than you'd like isn't a great person to get to know and perhaps fall in love with? How do you treat guys that fall short of the mark...some guys deserve to be treated rudely but if you are 'flaming' on a guy that is not your type just because he had the nerve to ask about you, that can get around... Good Luck and keep your mind open that oyster you casually toss back into the sea may have a lovely pearl inside :o)
2006-12-15 13:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem a few years ago in grade school (now that I'm in high school it's easier) so if you're in elementary school then my advice is just wait til high school when there's more guys to chose from ;)
Other than that try to make yourself available. In elementary school I was really shy and kept to myself around guys, never really trying to start conversations or anything. In high school all that changed, and that's what changed guys thoughts about me.
If you look approachable (like you look happy and kind and easy to talk to and stuff) then people will just be drawn to you. And if the guys still don't like you back then they're not worth it.
My other adivice is go for nerdy guys...they're the best :P The popular jock guys [from my experience] are jerks who think they're God's gift to women. But that's just a generalization, I'm sure there's some who are nice.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 21:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself, for example why would you say your not a super loser. Who's gonna like you if you don't completely love yourself. People can sense that, and you may be giving off that vibe. Confidence is the key. Good luck.
2006-12-15 21:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by me me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl,i have the same problem...ever since i got into high school its like there are totally gorgeous guys all over the place and you realize you ll never have a chance with the but what you really have to do is be yourself...if any guy doesn't like you for who you are then there not really worth it... besides guys only really want us ta get into our pants...its better to be single because you can flirt with who ever you want without having someone up your butt all the time.....i hope this helps a little...:-)
2006-12-15 21:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by aleyha93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl that is some deep situation do what i did waited 15 years without a gf now i got it and its good wait a little more and im sure u will get the best guy best of luck!
2006-12-15 21:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Hex Tropetor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not making big enough "clues" when you like a guy. Compliment him, maybe talk to him outside of class, like in the halls, and let your relationship develop. FLIRT!!!
2006-12-15 21:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try liking some different types of guys! You're hot so just move on - it's their loss.
2006-12-15 21:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sue T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same happened to me babe. lemme tell you, its not worth it to try to impress, just be yourself. some guy will come along & wil really see the firebird in you LOL. i was always lonely cuz it seemed like evryone had a bf except me, but along came my boy & i didnt do anything, he just started to like me is all. it just works out like that babe, be patient, wait for the right guy.
cuz honey, if no guys see you as a total trophy right now, they dunno what they're missing HAHA good luck babe.
2006-12-15 21:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have a REALLY REALLY strong and weird personality like this girl I know. Try tuning it down a bit, darling. Try being a tad nicer????
2006-12-15 21:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i feel the same way no body likes me at all just stand out and some body will notiece you
2006-12-15 21:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by CrownMe Rolen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋