ok, this 1 kid in my grade, but in the entire 1st semester, he has never said 1 word to me. & i mean our school's not big, but we dont have close lockers & we only have 2 clases with each other. my friend went out with him a couple years back, and she said he was a little conceited but i still think hes really cute & hes funny & plays guitar & surfs & i just think hes awesome but its like we're in 2 different worlds, i dont know what to do!! please i need a LOT of advice on this 1. it'd be much appreciated if you could all gimme some good answers. should i tell him?? & HOW??
2006-12-15 13:46:49 · 11 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay gurl i have been in that same problem too. before u do anything you need to talk to him start out by saying hi and asking about things that happen in class. Drop some clues and talk to people that know him and ask them to ask him if he likes you before u do. Because it u ask u might get heart broken or even worse he might just go out with u because he felt sorry for u. well it his friends say that he says he thinks ur ok or anything like that and continue droping clues all around him and when u 2 start talking a lot and hanging out maybe then u should tell him how u feel. and by that point he should be able to answer ur question.
well im having a little problem too im stuck in the middle of two guys one of them i know a little bit hes tall dark and handsome and hes on the football team and the other one i dont really know him all i know is his name is Will and he asked me out this morning. The other one is Immanuel. well immanuel asked me out on tuesday and again on wednesday. and will asked me out on friday but i havent gave any of them an answer yet. I dont know what to do. immanuel is really sweet and will is realy cutir but some people say that hes a freak but i dont know if he'll be like that because i dont really like him that mutch.
okay good luck gurl ttyl bye ! email me if u want at goyabean15@yahoo.com okay bye
2006-12-15 14:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by lil rican gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is play it cool for a while but talk to him as much as possible. Do not tell him your sort of into him but hint it too him until he figures it out. He could be really shy around other girls and he was only conceited with that friend that doesnt mean he will act the same way with you. If you like his personality you should just give him a try and see what happens.
2006-12-15 21:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by EmoLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't come out and tell him. I have done that and trust me, it does not end well. Try your best to do some very subtle flirting with him in the 2 classes you have together. If you're normally quiet, try to talk a little bit more, and if he asks you a question, answer him with a somewhat flirty smile, and be honest!!! This will assure you that he knows you exist. After you've clearly stated your intentions through your flirting, the ball's in his court and if he likes you, he'll ask you out. If he doesn't, then the feelings are obviously not going to be returned and you're better off going for someone else. Good luck!
2006-12-15 21:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by I run... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do, be really subtle (not obvious) about it. In whichever class he has with you, strike up a conversation about something random (not too random; something like: last night's homework, the sub in math yesterday, assembly, etc). If he talks to you, that's good. Build up a friendship and maybe something more can develop.
2006-12-15 21:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by dmbgirlie93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I once felt that was about a girl in high school
she was pretty and rich and I was just me, I didn't even know what rich was or what poor was either.
I just knew that I liked her. I think she liked me too. Two different worlds though. Her Dad was friends with the Kennedys I think.
2006-12-15 21:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, it's much probable that he already knows (or suspects). Women tend to think we're Stupid, but we know...
You can test if he's attracted to you by beeing clear about your intentions (looks, casual touching, coments and remarks...) If he doesn't respond to them, it's because he's not interested. DON't make the mistake of thinking he hasn't noticed. Believe me, we notice, and if we don't do anything is because we're not interested.
In case he doesn't respond, here's waht yuo DON't want to do: Confess your feelings to him, because he won't want to see you. Please believe me, and not one of your girlfriends that tell you "you be honest and be yourself and tell him" That doesn't work, that makes us guys not want to see the girl for a long while, it's a huge turnoff (in case we're not interested).
Tenley11 makes a great point.
2006-12-15 21:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by carlospvog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my sitution is a little different because I see my crush in the halls a lot and she looks at me a lot and i have a secret agent friend who gets info for me so try to look at him and smile
2006-12-15 21:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by gogosox50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to have a conversation with this guy, you need to find a place where he'll be and "accidentally" run into him. and there is always, "You're in my....class aren't you?" or "you went out with my friend....didn't you, wondered what happened to you. You seemed to have fallen of the earth. " be casual, you want to find a way to connect with him, without scaring him.
2006-12-15 21:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Zig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask him for his emaill address and you guys could meet up online and chat. You could ask you friends if they have his emaill add. you could ask him out, its ok to ask. he wont say no also. go out in groups to a movie or lunch. its easier. Good luck girl!
2006-12-15 21:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shold tell him and go out with him. Maybe flirt with him so he asks u out.
2006-12-15 21:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋