im trying to get a guy to like me...not just like me for "sex", but for a girlfriend...what do guys like in a girl?? please try to be as specific as possible, but its okay if you arent.
**please no bullcrap or lies**truth will work
2006-12-15 13:16:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just to make the details more specific...the guy is 17 years old...does he want something different because of his age?
2006-12-15 13:27:04 · update #1
im not a guy, but i think you should be yourself. if they guy doesnt like you for that, then obviously he is not worth it. dont worry sweetheart, youll find that special someone.
2006-12-17 11:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by jona j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the first thing a guy notices is looks, but once you have him reeled in you gotta show a little something more (looks are like bait when you're fishing, without you'll still draw fish, but you'll have to wait longer and there won't be as many). Once in a relationship, most guy prefer nice women who are fairly outgoing, fairly accepting, and fairly smart (although if the female in a relationship is smarter, some guys get very intimidated). Mostly, guys want someone who they can talk to, someone who listens and gives advice, someone who is honest, and someone who is generally happy. I realize this is a lot of things and almost nobody is all of these things, but these are just some factors that help. Don't worry about changing who you are for a guy, if you are who you are, the right guy will come along (and that's not just that psychobabble BS self-esteem stuff, that's almost always the truth...)
2006-12-15 21:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kostya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Demonstrate that you are capable, fun, thoughtful, resourceful and ambitious. Appreciation of nature is a big plus. The most important thing is what you have in common with the guy you're interested in.
IMPORTANT: Don't try to be what you think he wants. That is no way to way to start a lasting relationship. Just be yourself and be positive and fun to be around.
2006-12-15 21:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jimbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracting men that only want you sexually, you are sending sexual overtones to men. What type of clothes do you wear? How do you carry yourself? I would suggest that you wear more conservative apparel. Contrary to popular opinion, revealing clothes are not the way to go when looking for a man to have something real with. It doesn't take much to call forth the beast in a man, but it takes a real lady to bring out the gentleman.
2006-12-15 21:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by GoodCounsel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys like girls who are funny, nice, intelligent and pretty.But just be yourself like the previous people said.
2006-12-15 21:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by dark_fire_456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guiy,but best to be yourself so you have a better chance to find the right one.
2006-12-15 21:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are, to all i quess just be honest, well behaved, neat dresser, a future goal setter, smart, sincere, no bad habits,(smoking or drinking), and clean,
2006-12-15 21:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by quitelovableman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i like in girls is like there humor and nice kinda shy but not really shy attractive of course and has friends so that you no she is fun to be with
2006-12-15 21:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by bkewlv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl ? shouldn't be a problem ...I'm single if you care to mingle? IM me will talk I'm very open minded..
2006-12-15 21:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mudd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself because if he doesn't like you for who you are, its never gonna work out...
2006-12-15 21:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋