What could i have done or asked to find this sh?t out sooner?
4 months, i fell in love- rearranged my life- hence lost a lot of money....... deleted 62 potential nice guys and friends off my msn out of respect for him.......
ummmmmm....can anyone feel my pain? Has this ever happened to anyone else before.
She found my no. on his cell. Being hurt in the past has taught me not to dig......um.....stupid me!!!!!!!
2006-12-15 13:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by La-La 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hee Hee Hee...I'd love to be a fly on the wall at his house tonight when she tears him a new one!
2006-12-15 13:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dig wasn't dumb! now u know. what r u gonna do ? u got some serious problems.do u love him? better think 2xs!!! u need 2 dump him! he's a liar!! Does he luv u??? If he did, he would have told u! And 2 think u liked him!! ask yourself 4 months was plenty enough for him 2 *** clean! If he loves you, he'll leave her. Then, you'll have something 2 deal with.Think about that! His marriage must suck!:(.How many times has he done this 2 her?? what does his wife think? maybe you 2 can have a sitdown,talk only if u really luv him.But how does he feel about you?? Is he willing 2 leave her and start over? Is he willing 2 be apart of ur life?These questions you need 2 be willing 2 ask! His marriage is over. Happyiness anyway.He's gutless. he should have told you. This happen 2 me but I was the wife. Her and I talked 4 an hour. I found out my husband was a liar and, he was not commited 2 me or my kids.This brought questions up as 2 trust and how many others times he did it. Found out there were more, we divorced bitterly. Now he is married 2 one of those woman but, deep down I know he is not happy.O well it happens. Move on gal. unless, he's willing to get down on his knees. He's got alot of explaining 2 do. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-15 14:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 MONTHS!!!! You rearranged your life for someone you had only known for 4 months??? You even lost money! I would not even worry about this entire situation anymore. Move on...write it off as a learning experience. Also...there is nothing wrong with prying if it's done correctly. You have to protect yourself. There had to be other signs that he was married or did you just ignore them? Seems you put the horse b 4 the carriage...lol. Those 4 months should have been spent getting to know this man instead of rearranging your life. Next time ....do your homework b4 you let your heart get involved.
2006-12-15 13:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by libradoll3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there...I even had a guy show me his fake divorce papers, only to find out he was still married. I feel so bad for his poor wife. Some of them lie so well, there probably was no way you could find out sooner. 4 months isn't too bad, you could have found out much later and after you invested more into the relationship.
All I can say is...don't let this burn you too much to where you don't trust men, but keep one eye open for clues in the future! They are pretty obvious once you've been burnt once!
2006-12-15 13:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what's good for you, you will let him go because his wife will not stop at just calling you up, plus the bum will crap on you the same way he did his wife and kids the day he finds someone younger and with less restrictions that he visualizes as a rope tightening.
2006-12-15 13:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tina Zecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Try and meet more guys that are really nice and sweet just like he was but, make sure he's not cheating on you or, has a wife before you do that.
2006-12-15 14:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god I feel so sorry for you!! Just forget about the ******* and move on... I know it sounds hard, but give yourself plenty of time and surround yourself with friends and positive things. Good luck :)
2006-12-15 13:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for ya, but you just have to move on, and find another guy.
2006-12-15 13:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry...My advice...move on and find a guy...WHO HAS NO WIFE!!!No seriously...
2006-12-15 13:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mgina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋