this boy who i met online wants to come and stay at my house for my birthday.i really really want him to aswell because i really love him.but how do i tell my mum that i want a 'stranger' to be living with us for a week? and also he lives in chatham and i need to lend her credit card to order the train tickets so obviously im gonna have to tell her!so does any1 know how i can pay for train tickes by post or phone or something? but most importantly HOW DO I TELL MY MUM??!! oh n by the way im 14..
2006-12-15 13:15:00 · 17 answers · asked by chelsea c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shed do the same thing mine did.. kick your *** i was 14 got close to a guy on the net was gonna met him on his b day my mom found out and wouldnt let me talk to him if i were you i wouldnt meet him, do not lend out a credit card and do not tell your mom about him!!
2006-12-15 13:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about if you truly really know this guy, if you are making a wise decision to open up your house to someone who could potentially bring harm to you and your family. You should just directly tell your mother and if you cant do that then you are not ready for him to come stay with you. If you were totally sure of yourself and this guy then you wouldnt be afraid say something about him and you shouldnt be talking to someone that needs you a 14 year old to pay for his tickets. He probably wont even come, he probably is just going to cash the tickets back in for cash or steal the numbers to your moms credit card.
2006-12-15 21:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look take my advice. Don't do it! I know it's hard but trust me he has got you fooled. I watched this think on Nickelodeon about how teens are always on the internet and stuff using myspace and what not. There was this girl who fell in love with this guy over the internet. The got to know each other really well and everything. He said he was 18. She had already sent him pictures of her. They wanted to meet in real life and then you know what happened. The guy turned out to be some scary dude in his 40s and that guy abducted that girl. Don't let it happen to you. You think that you like him but he is just trying to make you think that. Take my advice and don't fall for it. You never know if he is asking to meet you in real life he is just trying to kidnap you or steal you identy. You can't see what's on the other side of that computer.You probaly don't belive me but it's true. However if you make the wrong desion and tell him your address and stuff not only will you not be safe but your mom is going to ground you for life. We all think that it won't happen to us but then it does and we all feel sorry.So that's 2 reasons. Do the right thing!
2006-12-15 21:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Loaha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T tell your mother because the mere idea of having some stranger come live in your house - with you paying for him to do it - is bloody ridiculous! You've never even met the guy! He could be an internet rapist, for all you know, and you'd be inviting him into your home.
2006-12-15 21:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by [11:11 pm] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, you should definitely not let any person come to live with you. If they really want to see you they could at least pay thier own way sweetie. You are too young for this kind of thing, plus its just not safe to meet people online. He's probably a really old man who will come to kill and rape you and mom. No seriously I hope that scared you cause it could be the truth. DON'T DO IT PLEASE
2006-12-15 21:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by pamela m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could go and put the money on one of those prepaid credit card and pay for the ticket that way but i strongly suggest you have the talk with your mom about his visit before purchasing any tickets. you might want to sit her down and let her know how you feel about him first let her talk to him on the phone so she can get a sense of the kind of person he is.she is not going to agree with the idea right off hand i can tell you that but just don't make it seem like you are giving her a ultimatum take it easy with her because this is going to be a helluva surprise.
2006-12-15 21:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by cynthia g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhm... I think you should have told your mom when you first started talking with said boy, I don't think she'll allow you to use her credit card for a stranger to come to your house and live there for a week. You should probably talk this through with your mom. Right now.
2006-12-15 21:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haaa, this is exactly how little kids get killed. Meeting someone on the internet. "fall in love" and invite them over jus to "chill"... you know what....tell your mother, PLEASE TELL YOUR MOTHER! maybe she'll put some sense into you... Ok, this is how you say it "mom, im having some stranger i met on the internet over next week for my birthday, & can you pay for his train tickets,... by the way, were in love".... ha!!!
2006-12-15 21:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by missattitude691 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your to young. plus it is way to risky. Honestly, It is a stupid idea, no affence. If you have only met this guy over the internet, you really have no idea about who he is. c'mon your 14 and you want to buy train tickets for a total stranger that you "really love" to live with you for a week? .................crazy. Unless you want to end up dead or raped or somthing i would tottaly forget about it
2006-12-15 21:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ARE YOU CRAZY? you don't want some guy off the internet to stay with you because he could be a 40 yr old guy. and you are only 14 so that is stupid to want to have a guy stay the week with you.
2006-12-15 21:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by gatorsun 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋