my friend..she is beautiful but she is 100% convinced that she is the ugliest thing on earth, it not some phase she's going through because she has always been like this and no matter what i or any of her friends say she wont believe us, it seems to have gotten alot worse lately so what do i do?
2006-12-15 13:14:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am the same way.
some one probably told her in the past that she is ugly and that wont leave her head.
2006-12-15 13:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do not put her on or drop hints that u like her unless u do and she sounds like the type who might fall into bulimia if this gets any worse tell her that she is in need of help because this is a real professional deal she must be hurt in some way if someone is at home telling her something then u need to find out what she needs right now is a FRIEND not a lover OK! she is not in need of any kind of friends with benefits cuz that is discusto! just tell her that she is beuatiful and pray for her
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2006-12-15 21:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by mar! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the same way i feel. Everyone tell's me i'm Gorgeous, beautiful, Sexy, but i think i am ugly but now i am trying to accept that i am beautiful. Does she have a bf? maybe there is a guy that she like that might like someone else cause that's what i was passing trough till i got a bf so just try to get a boyfriend for her. Most girls feel that way when they are single and when they don't have any boyfriend.
Have you told her that she's beautiful ? tell her that she is the most beautiful girl in the entire universe. that's what girls like to hear.
2006-12-15 21:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by ~Beautiful~ & ~Gorgeous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should notdo anything. Before anyone tells her that she is beautiful she has to cinvince herself that she is beautiful. Self love comes from within!
P.S. Do u think she does this to get attention, I had a friend like this once and she she wanted someone to reassure her that she was pretty even though she already knew. she just wanted people to to tell her.
2006-12-15 21:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u need 2 ask if there is any problem she is going through or maybe she is just going through a bad phase that every girl does every month.
2006-12-15 21:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you care about her.... so tell her so. Do you like her? You don't really specify. But if you do, say you do for who she is, just the way she is.
Is she hurting herself? (anorexia, bulimia, cutting, etc.) If she is, you need to tell a responsible adult/older friend.
You really didn't give enough detail for a more helpful answer.
Hope I could be of assistance.
2006-12-15 21:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has the most beautiful personality.Whether shes pretty or not,she should have some self esteem.
2006-12-15 21:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Deanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'm ugly, and people tell me I 'm really pretty. What you have to do is convince her she is pretty,and ask her why she thinks shes pretty.
2006-12-15 21:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Zacky Vengeance est.6661 :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her how beautiful she is and try comparing her to well, also something beautiful.
2006-12-15 21:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mgina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a list of why she's beautiful inside and out if she's like me and u like her she'll think it's great! if u love her she'll probably fall in love with u........i think
hope this helps
2006-12-15 21:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by fashiongrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋