It's gettin close to christmas and I kind of want to tell this girl I really like how I feel. I used to go to school with her, but we graduated, and I never got to tell her how I felt. The group I hang out with also went to school with her and me so we're pretty good friends. The main problem is that we don't hang out and none of the friends in my group hang out with her, so I really am kinda stuck. How can I go about telling her. I mean i can't just come out of nowhere and tell her i really like her when i haven't really seen her for almost 2 yrs. If anyone can help please HELP ME!!
2006-12-15 13:11:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure you can just tell you that you like her after almost two years... Think about it... What would you do if some girl that you really used to like just called you up after two years of not seeing you and aked you out... You would be pretty happy and a bit surprised right? Well, that's how she's going to feel... She'll be completely psyched if you call her out of the blue!!! You might be a bit nervous but it will all be worth it in th end... Trust me.
2006-12-15 13:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by make love not war 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you can't just come out of the blue with it, but you can, what is really stopping you? I've been out of highschool for 5 years and in uni for 3, and a guy I really liked for most of highschool ( I don't think he knew I exsisted) called me up 4 months ago, turns out he went to great lengths to get my number from a friend who knows a friend of his. He told me that it may sound weird but he had been thinking about me on and off for the past 5 years now since he'd last seen me. We live 4 hours from each other but when I head home for the break we're going out for coffee together. So, just do it, you never know what could happen until you try and you may regret it if you don't. Life's too short to wait. Good luck with it and I hope you do it.
2006-12-15 13:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should call her up and invite her to dinner, or since its Christmas send her a gift, then you could use that to start up a conversation, then you could mention that would like to spend some time getting to know her, this way you can play it safe.
This will also help you to find out if she likes you and take the pressure off you telling her right away how you feel about her.
Good luck.
2006-12-15 13:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter how long you haven't been around her, k.i.s.s if you like her tell her. If you hadn't gone to school with her, and say you met her some where else, would you hesitate then to tell her that you want to be with her. If she feels the same way she will be glad that you spoke your mind and told her the truth. Really what are your options? tell her, and possible be really happy with this women. Or don't tell her, and hide it and watch her from a far (sort of speaking ) and be miserable. And i wouldn't worry about what your friends say or think. if your friends really care about you then they would want you to be happy.
2006-12-15 13:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter as a feamle i'm telling you to tell her evem if she doesn't like you like that she will respect you for your honesty if she isn't a *****. Pull the shy card when you talk to her jus say that you never knew how to tell her but you always thought she was the most beautiful girl in the world tell her how you feel things might work out for you.
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-15 13:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your comfortable with it, tell one or more of your friends, and say you wanna have a mini school reunion thing, everyobdy catches up, and ta-da, you see her, hold a stare, smile, hold a little longer, walk over to her, and kiss her on the cheek, eventually get married and have 10 babies, GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-15 13:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Blurred V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you SHOULD just tell her. If she says no, at least you won't spend the rest of your life wondering. Then you could feel good and find someone else and live your life. If she says yes, just know it was meant to be.
2006-12-15 13:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Here To Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call and see what is going on in her life. May be she feels the same way.
2006-12-15 13:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. Go tell her you like her. Worst case scenario, you get looked at like a moron or get kicked in the nads. Atleast you'll know.
2006-12-15 13:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take it slowly start out by movies or a party somthin like that
but ask her at one point or it will be to late!
good luck
2006-12-15 13:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by thrive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋