why is it that my boyfriend of two years feels like he constantly has to ***** at me? First thing he does in the morning, afternoon and night. He can't seem to let things go. We get along great other than this recurring issue. He makes me feel like such doo doo that I cant even do my job to earn money. I am always happy, laughing and then he comes around its all changes. What to do. We have been arguing about finance issues the last couple of weeks. I admit he spent some money but what he doesn't seem to grasp is I can get all that in weekend if he would believe in me and not constantly tear me down. I work three jobs, two in sales one computer related and he sells phones. I love him very much, I want this man to be my husband but how can I get him to wear the shoes I wear when he won't stop, as if he does not care how I feel as long as he sounds better to his own self, and being taken for granted is also how I feell.He has lived with me for about 14 months total. Any help?
2006-12-15 13:11:33 · 1 answers · asked by ~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He won't change after you marry him. In fact, he in likely to get worse--more controlling and more critical because he will know t hat you are trapped and won't leave him. He will do whatever he believes will make you feel inferior to him. Get out of this relationship while you can. You will be happier by yourseld or with someone else.
2006-12-15 13:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by buster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋