Can guys please answer this. Girls too but guys mostly^_^?

Question

So guys, I'm a girl. You could probably guess. My problem is that I don't know how to ask I guy out. Please help. What do you think I should say?

Answer 1

Ask him if he wants to go to the movies.

Answer 2

to be honest a girl once asked me that
i was so taken aback, i couldn't answer.
i thought she was joking.
looking back i should have said yes.
another girl did the same thing. i never got
round to it. i wish i'd said yes then too.
i was really shy. now i'm older and wiser, i can
see that if a guy says yes, u are probably onto a good thing
so it is a good idea to ask. even if he says no it will be a bit
of an ego trip for him and will provide u with valuable experience.
if u ask nicely, he ought to say yes. if he says no, he might think about it and ask u at a later time. u could ask him to think about it and get back 2u !!
it's all very exciting really.
try to pick something he will be interested in first time.
whatever happens, don't let it get u down, if u don't ask, u don't get. i have heard of girls asking celebs for dates. some of them get really lucky, apparently, as the celebs are so ko'd by their audacity (bravery and charm) !!

Answer 3

You dont need a guys answer you need CONFIDENCE.
Guys shouldnt be the only ones to be at risk from a knockback.
If you like him just say i think your really nice and if you fancy a drink sometime give me a shout
Men love that its an ego boost to them
And if he says no then fine aat least you asked instead of not knowing and acting all stupid around him
Be positive.Your heart wont be broken its just asking.. Give it a go its a real confidence boost even if he says no. You had the guts to do it and you will do it again...Promise.

Those that dont ask dont get...believe me.x

Answer 4

I'm a girl.
First you need to build common ground. A relationship can't only be based on looks. There needs to be sorm form of shared interests, or you won't last too long.
When you've built this common ground, you can then say things like:
"Are you free for (place desired activity here) on (place desired day here)"
"Are you busy on (desired day)?"
But remain calm. Showing that you're nervous may lead your person of interest to think that you're uncomfortable around them.
Last of all, be yourself and be honest. The worst thing that could happen in a budding relationship would be for you to be caught in a sophisticated network of lies because you were trying to impress this person. And if somehow you manage to lie without being caught, your person of interest wouldn't like you, they'd like the made-up you.
I hope this helps you.

Answer 5

Generally the guy does the asking out, but for you... I think the best way is to, first of all, know that if he turns you down that it's not the end of the world, and you shouldn't make a big deal out of it. But for the verbal part of it, you should suggest a place to go, a casual place, like the park if you have one near by or to a starbuck's.

Answer 6

Just front him rarther cheekily by saying

Are you gonna take me out for a drink then or what?

Shock tactics work everytime.
Plus we can be quite simple sometimes an just not see the signs,
If a girl aks a guy to take her for a drink then its like christmas for us we get to go for a drink an a girl wants us to be there as well, I'm sold.

Answer 7

Depending on your present age, if you're a young adult, than the best thing is to engage in conversation and simply say that you would like to go out with him sometime for dinner, movies, or something that you could both enjoy.

Answer 8

I disagree with the people that say that the boy should do it. Nows the new age ey. Of course though..dont come on too strongly..a man wants to feel like he's a man so just disguise it with something 'casual' like oging out or something.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

I don't know why you girls keep asking this question,
Just say " I am going to x y z do you fancy coming too" Its so easy. The worst thing he can say is " No " , But then you just ask again next time.Try it, it works.

Good luck Honey. x

Answer 11

Just find out if the guy is interested in you and then if he is ask him if he wants to go out with you sometime and see where it goes from there.