how did you leave it, with your kids and what kind of abuse was it that you put up with.
Was it hard, did he take you to court...what about money issues while trying to leave???
2006-12-15 13:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I was in an abusive relationship. He beat me everyday. I wound up in the hospital with 4 broken ribs after he decided to hit me with a crowbar. I finally just left and stopped talking to him. I decided not to press charges, but only because I didn't feel like dealing with him.
2006-12-15 13:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by frdtrkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day I just took the kids and went to my moms, borrowed money 2 days later for an apartment, it was emotional abuse for me, physical for my kids. And yes we went to court, after he took them to visit and didn't return them, a real nightmare, but hang tough, get out and depend on your local police department, and legal aide for the divorce stuff. Money to this day (14 years later) is still tough, but I do not regret it and neither do the kids, we are very close. Good luck, if you don't have relatives, go to a shelter, they will help protect you. Just like everything else, know this is what you want and need to do, NO ONE DESERVES OR SHOULD STAY IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP!! Hang tough!!
2006-12-15 21:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by patet4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was verbally abused he had me convinced i was fat so I became fat gain 20 dress sizes. he destroyed my mentally and psychically After i had my son and realized he never went to see our son in the nicu hospital except for maybe 30 min every other day. I started to wake up and finally a friend told me do you want your son to treat you like your husband does even more do you want him to treat all women that way. I was so afraid of him I sent my father and brother to kick him out of house and filled papers the next day settle out of court and got full legal custody and dint talk him any more. Every thing from him goes Thur a family member or I talk to his mother. He owes me so much money but I dint feel like dealing with him our the trouble it takes. I happy down 15 dress sizes.
2006-12-15 21:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by wentouttobike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was with my old man for 6 1/2 years... he was great the first 6 months then he decided that i no longer needed my friends or family.... he would always tell me I was fat and this and make me feel so bad about myself and make me feel that i was actually making him do this to me.... then he would slap me and punch me..... he would drag me down the hallway and throw me into walls.... Telling me if I ever left he would kill me...... Then we had our son and he started doing all this again after i had him an i decided that my son deserved better then that and i couldnt put him at risk so i just called my mother and left.... I didnt need money my mom helped with that and i called the police the last time he done it and had him arrested for domestic battery and yes we went to court for child custody and he got visitation and has to pay child support....
2006-12-15 23:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CANNOT STAY YOU HAVE TO LEAVE A SINGLE MOM DOSE EVERYTHING SHE CAN but its still hard get to a shelter they will help you with resources and get you on your feet buy you diapers and food
mine took me to court won visitation a year ago and has yet to take the kid its a mind game to them put your chin up meet it head on dont let him see you weak
but its very hard but its harder staying
2006-12-15 21:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by The_Darker_Side_of_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let him take you, take him to court or just report it. if he get worse then take him to court and get custedy of your kids and if he gets visitations make sure he's not abusing them and get a suberviser.
2006-12-15 22:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by CD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like abuse ms. Lisa...
yhs ....silly ...
you called me a what.?
this is a riot.how'd you get that " big " score ?...
2006-12-15 22:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋