I mean come on. I ask you questions about your day. I don't push sex on you (in fact I wait till I know your ready). I take you out for fancy dinners, drinks, coffee, and even the occasional chick flick. I call you every night like you tell me to. I respect you and then you tell me 'lets just be friends.' Why?
2006-12-15 12:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by Ken Harvey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, maybe you just haven't found someone who appreciates you enough. In the past, most of my crushes were on hot jerks because I thought that I could "change them" or they were just being jerks to get attention, and they were really sweet and loving on the inside. Let me tell you, I was wrong. My boyfriend right now was my friend first, which is why he's my boyfriend. We got to know each other, and then we decided that we wanted to take our friendship to the next level. Hopefully, you can find a girl that appreciates you for you and won't ditch you for some asshole.
Good luck! Trust me, it's definitely worth the work, the waiting, and the heartbreak! You sound like a really sweet guy to me, so just keep looking for the right girl.
2006-12-15 13:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Drop of Golden Sun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women date jerks because they're dressed cool, have a good type of money and a effective vehicle, or they're purely somewhat good looking and that female is purely performing shallow. She's no longer searching for a personality, or someone deeper who somewhat cares and somewhat treats her good. effective adult males i imagine can do a lot extra then shallow jerks can ever do. i'm a Gemini!
2016-11-26 21:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because the girls you go out with are jerks too.
Or maybe they're just ignorant and don't appreciate what they have
Or you just did something to upset them. Maybe it just wasn't working out, and they saw you more as a friend than a spouse. You could always ask them why they left you.
2006-12-15 12:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by savana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you aren't going out with quality women that will appreciate you. Some women are addicted to men they think they can change from a jerk to a loving guy, so that it validates their ability to love someone.
2006-12-15 12:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you have to have to be a little mysterious- I'm in a relationship like yours right now and he calls me all the time. There's no reason at times it seems to continue b/c i know everything about him. Be a little mysterious they'll be more interested- Try it.
2006-12-15 13:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by cutsygrl_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't want guys who are too attentive. We want guys who will treat us like equals, and not give us special treatment just because we're women. We like it when a guy makes himself unavailable, since it makes us try harder. Just drop the "decent guy" act and get with the program.
2006-12-15 15:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww. you sound like every girl's prince charming. i think you need to drop bigger hints to us females that you want to be more than just friends. apparently it sounds to me like the things you do for us females makes us see you as friend material.
2006-12-15 13:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you look,are you over compensating because you haven't did any physical improvements,face ,hair ,skin, weight, hygiene
2006-12-15 13:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋