I am just so scared! He is always with a buddy or a big group of friends and I'm shy so I don't want to sound stupid. If I sound stupid I don't want it to be in front of his friends. I really like him and I know I have to do something if I want him to notice me and talk to me. It's Christmas break so i got a while to think about it but I still want to know what you think. Should I get a good friend to walk with me and then when I see him that I should say "Hi" to him when he is around his friend or friends? Right now I am just bacially asking how can I get him to like me and talk to me? I kinda knew him when in 7th grade but not really then 8th I had to do to a different school. Now we go to the same high school. I want to get to know him and become his friend and then possibally more than just a friend but I seriouisly just don't have a clue as to what I should do. Everybody has a bf except me but I don't just want a bf i really do like him. He isn't in any of my classes.
2006-12-15 12:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so I like this right but I don't know how to get him to notice me without me feeling like a Dork or really stupid or something. I just want to get him to like me. I would say Hi to him and stuff but I am just so scared. He is always with his friends so I just don't want to talk to him around is friends I am just not comfortable with that.I might be less scared if I get 1 of my good friends to be with me when I say hi to him. Do you think I should do that? I just want to get him to like me and then see where it goes. I am 14 and have never been out with anybody so that is why I am so confused. All my friends have or had bfs. It's weird it have never really bothered me til now. I guess it's cuz I never really liked anyone til now. I am not in any of his classes but I see him a lot in the hallways between classes and before school. 1 of my good friends is in 1 his classes. I told her I like him and she has a bf and I have asked her Qs and she says try saying hi to him. This all you do?
2006-12-15 13:25:26 · update #1
it's there more to it though? I don't get it. How do you make friends in the first place? I am trying to figure that out from the friends I have made. So should I keep 1 of my good friends by my side if I see the guy I like when he is with a buddy? I don't feel confortable by myself. I'm really shy around people I don't know and I just can't help that.If I don't end up talking to him should I ever say something like remember me from middle school or something. Please help I need advice.
2006-12-16 03:09:54 · update #2
I had this same problem at the beginning of the year! Of course, I was lucky and he lived near me so when me and one of my friends introduced me to him now we ride the four wheelers all the time. I was thinking maybe you should get a really close friend and act very happy and smile a lot. Laugh a lot too. Guys like crazy, so act crazy too, but no so crazy that you embarras your self. Soon he will start to notice you and he will her your laugh and turn around. Then one day you can walk up to him and say hi or something. Smile at him also when he looks at you! Remember, laugh a lot around him soon he will know your laugh. The guy i like now always knows how to make me laugh!
2006-12-16 05:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him hi or something for him to notice you!! he might already have a girl friend!! did you ask your friend to ask him if he has a girlfirend or not!! and if not you better make your move fast!!
good luck:)
2006-12-15 21:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by shorty_2_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋