SOME ADVICE PLEASE!!
2006-12-15 12:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by luvcrosby87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
2006-12-15 12:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is one thing I know if he likes you and I mean really likes you then he will show it. There won't be any guess work to it. Most of the time when people can't tell its because most likely its not there. Every one shows how they feel differently but when they do there shouldn't be any confusion as to what it is that they are showing. If he seems like he doesn't want to be bothered sometimes, maybe he doesn't But if he shows interest in you (ie: wants to spend more time with you, introduces you to his family/friends, takes you places special to him) don't doubt that either.
2006-12-15 12:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by queen_of_hearts12685 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it, this different guy sounds in the present day. If I have been you, i think of i might in simple terms save quiet. placed your self if his shoes. If he's not gay, and searching that a chum of his had a ' weigh down ' on him, might probably make him mad and fully embarrass him. you're able to not in basic terms get injury emotionally yet bodily as properly. i've got learn issues like that in the past and that i does not bypass the gap. Sorry .
2016-12-30 12:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by dustman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he sees you does he sort of stare at you for a while? Does he smile when he sees you? Does it seems he is always around where you go? Have you heard from anyone of his friends that he likes you? Does he know you like him? Then ask him.
2006-12-15 12:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way when you are young: ask all of your friends and his friends and talk about it a lot. Eventually, you two will either be forced together by your hormonal attraction, or, drift apart from an inner sense of boredom.
2006-12-15 12:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend to ask him about how he feels about a few people and put your name in the list (ask 'just friends?' or 'maybe more?') and see which category you get placed in....
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2006-12-15 12:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't leave you alone. If he's shy, you'll see him around every bend just trying to get a glimpse of you, or he'll send a friend up to talk to you for him.
2006-12-15 12:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he eyes u when he sees u and when u r close 2 him and he is taken back a bit, then he has feelins for u no doubt
2006-12-15 12:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a little flirty. you know, do those girly things that girls do....give him a gentle touch or laugh at nothing. when you do this, read his eyes. eyes say it all. when you flirt or get close, talk, etc, just make eye contact. see what you feel, and try to feel what he sees.
2006-12-15 12:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by mike h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out and find out!
2006-12-15 12:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋