last night was our xmas party in boarding but i didn't attend...no exchange gifts...y?i don't want to receive nor give gifts from those persons who are in the habit of doing back gossips...yeah they said things against me...they judged me...they made me believe that they were nice...never did i do or say something against them...i'm hurt and so my treatment to them have changed...i'm not the same old me-the sweet,loving and caring..now am aloof..i just avoid them but i don't treat them bad..and they knew that..they asked me y but then i just could't say..they wanted me to stay last night but i went out...did i do the right thing?some of them don't approach me, while some do..yet i don't know who of them are true...i just don't want to share my life with such people but we're living in the same roof, i couldn't escape...
2006-12-15 12:36:52 · 3 answers · asked by "befriendme" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~I hope you are no more than 6 years old. If you are, you've got some serious problems that Yahoo Answers ain't gonna solve. But look on the bright side; if insecurity, lack of a personality and narcisism were gold, you could buy and sell Billy Gates.
2006-12-15 12:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what is best for you and it sounds like these people are not. Don't surrond yourself with people who make you miserable. You have the power to control how these people make you feel (by just taking yourself out of their situations) and what they have to say because if your not there to give them something to talk about, then eventually they'll run out of stories to make up. I understand how others treating you can have an effect on your personality and I had take to take myself out of a similar situation and eventually the pain starts to go away and you learn to trust again. I think it was right of you to do your own thing and even if you explain to them your reason for doing so..you're better off.
2006-12-15 13:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Age 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what feels right for you, it sounds like you would still like to be with them.i went to my husbands company christmas party they all seemed very nice (but i hope they talk all kinds of SH!t about me) because what they think about me is none of my business....
2006-12-15 12:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by glitsyjewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋