People have told me to move on, but I can't keep my mind off of this guy no matter what. He is taken by a complete brat and they have been going out on and off for about 2 years. I don't mean to be selfish about it but I really wish they would just break up already. So the question is, how do I keep my mind off of him?
2006-12-15 12:31:57 · 9 answers · asked by georgiasunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't. I have the same thing happening to me and that is the best answer I can give. You never probably never will. you know this person now and years later he will still pop into your mind.
2006-12-15 12:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may not be able to keep your mind off of him. But consider him and his relationship. If he's been dating her for 2 years, something must be right. She may be a brat to you, but it's not your relationship. It's his. If it's not right between them, one day they'll break up, but if they don't they don't. You need to respect him, and not get in the way of his relationship. Just tell yourself he's taken, and that you want to respect him. And know there are other people out there, and there is so much you can do with your life besides think of him. Take up hobbies, whatever it takes.
2006-12-15 20:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by ------ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself the same question before i go to bed and when i wake up , i cannot go thought a normal day without thinking of my ex...but there is a differnce between my current ex and my past ex-ies is that i moved away and i knew that i would never see them agian , really the truth is no one can really "cure" you , it's one of those things that if you think about.An some how you will detrimion when to stop thinking about him.But ur not alone , though my relationship was not as seroius nor , i can't stop thinking about my ex that we just broke up around two weeks ago and in a nutshell i broke up wit her cuz she was gonna start ***** another guy...but i still miss her...
2006-12-15 20:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by mrnibbles01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's challenging to mind off someone that you like or even move on. But if you keep trying hard, i'm sure you will soon forget him to exist. Just focus for now, yourself not him. Have time for yourself to have fun and be yourself. Enjoy your life
2006-12-15 20:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kaye P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id hang out with friends, and I know itll seem like youll like him forever, but forever is a long time!Id also think about other guys you were thinking about before he came along.Trust me. Ive been there! Denial he hates you does not come as easily as I thought.Good Luck!
2006-12-15 20:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by YAY MONKEYS! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up some extra-curricular activities or do something you enjoy, (eg. painting or joining a gym??) it'll take up your time so you won't be thinking about him. Sitting around all day telling yourself not to think about him isn't gonna do much good. Good luck
2006-12-15 20:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to entertain other guy...do not think of something that reminds you of him....besides if you are really meant for each other fate will find ways for both of you to be friends and be more than friends eventually.
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