okay so me and my boyfriend of 3 months just broke up. the reason is is because i saw a hickey on his neck. he didn't tell the truth at first, but then did after a while. it turns out they were from his ex-girlfriend. i know she hates me, because i took him from her. so i know her intentions were to make us break-up. [btw-they didn't have sex, they just kissed] also, i know it wasn't totally her fault, he could've said no. then i told him that i had cheated on him once before, but after i kissed the guy, i said no, i've got a boyfriend and stopped kissing him. i broke up with him because he did that to me, but i didn't want to. i really like him, and kinda want him back. i didn't sound desperate when i asked him, but he said there was a high chance in him giving "us" another chance[both of us want to], because he thinks that people can chance if they want to.... what would you do in the whole situation...?
2006-12-15 12:16:32 · 23 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it would be hypocritical of you to hold this incident against him, since you did the same thing; he kissed a girl, you kissed a guy. So if the two of you really want to try again, then I see no harm in a fresh start, with both of you committed to making sure the same thing doesn't happen again. You will need to sit down, talk about what the problems were in the relationship that made you both fall into that temptation, and work on fixing them.
2006-12-15 12:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you and you cheated on him,
sex or not. It's time you both started thinking
what is is that you want in a relationship,as
breaking up after 3 months is not a relationship
its just a getting to know each other.
2006-12-15 13:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first instinct is to break up with someone who cheated on me. Weather just a kiss or more. I beleive the one I am with should be true to me. Thing is I am not you. Honesty is the best medicine. If you want it to work take him back. If your afraid it'll happen again, weather your kissing someone else or he's kissing someone else you are the one that has to live with it. Hopefully you can make the best choice for your situation. Good Luck
2006-12-15 12:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by robbie347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he doesn't get another chance because he already betrayed your trust, so what makes you think that he won't do it again? in fact, he may be MORE likely to do it again because he knows that you'll break up with him, but then just come running right back. that will make him think that he has you wrapped around his finger, and that is NEVER good. just give it time, it won't hurt so much then. and in the future, don't take another girl's guy, because what goes around comes around...
i hope you're doing alright
you did the right thing
2006-12-15 12:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all need to know that you are all cheats ! That never works doees it ? Someone always gets hurt...
Find a new love and forget the past , just remember not to cheat and get that straight with your next boyfriend too.set some boundaries in your relationships and above all respect yourself !
2006-12-15 12:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
If your not afraid that there might be a chance that he'll do it again and if you really believe in him that much than, go for it! If you both love each other and if he promises that he won't ever think about another woman than you 2 should be together!
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2016-11-26 21:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll never stop. Get a new boyfriend who isn't currently with anyone else and start off clearly able to trust each other from the start and avoid all the problems.
2006-12-15 12:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by cblrdy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he LET it happen then toss him. He is responsible just as much as she is so don't give him points for her intentions. Step back and look at the situation fromt he outside and if you see what you should then you will leave him alone and find better.
2006-12-15 12:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath first , than make a list of pros and cons.Take some time for yourself to rejuevinate your thoughts; you are kind of muddled right now.After a day or two ask him if there is a chance of you two getting back together.
2006-12-15 12:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋