About a year and a half ago I met this guy at my job who was very cute and charming. He acted like he was so interested in me and we eventuslly had sex. Well the longer I worked at this job, the more and more I found out about him and how many other girls he slept with. For the next year, he strung me along and toyed with my feelings still pretending to be interested, but "not wanting a relationship". anyway now this new girl comes along who lives with her boyfriend and they have been flirting shamelessly for the past 2 months. I know she likes him and I think he likes her, but I am not sure if it is just an act. Not only that but she makes it a point to become acquainted and flirt with his friends and everybody seems to like her. I cant lie, but i think she is real cook and down to earth but she has a boyfriend. I feel pushed aside and to be honest I am a little jealous. My question is do u think he likes her, and what do I do about the situation? What type of guy do u think he is?
2006-12-15 12:13:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You go to work with this sticky situation and if you want to keep this job and not get caught up in this mess, just be a professional and rise above it. Obviously he has no problem having his way with any willing partner and you do not need to be another notch on his bedpost. Move on and let this girl's boyfriend's deal with her nonsense, it's non of your businesses anymore,
find a partner as far away from your workplace as you can,
good luck
Irene
2006-12-15 12:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously a selffish jerk!!!!!! if i were u i would cook up a plan to ruin his life or soemthing get revenge i meen look because of him u have to sit here and feel so hurt??? while hes out there flirting and having sex with other girls!?!?!?! he needs to feel the pain that u are feeling u cant let him get away with this!!!! and that girl shes a slut just leave it i meen trust me u dun want the attention she gets and sometimes u may get jealous but sooner or later her boyfriend will find out if u really dont like her tell her boyfriend or something!
2006-12-15 20:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there,Going there now.Dont let ur jealoous take a hold of the situation or u will be the bad guy, Some Other women always want what someone else have its a thrill!
2006-12-15 20:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by 0525msb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Type of guy? Hes a dog in heat! He wants to lay as many girls in the company as possible.
2006-12-15 20:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by fallin64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, darling, he is what folks I hang out with call a "ho." And no, he doesn't like her, he likes what's between her legs, based on what you've typed there. And I know it hurts, but you've got to let him go and find someone that truly respects you, because messing with that guy is only gonna cause you to catch some nasty STD.
2006-12-15 20:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by crey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. I know it's hard for you, especially since you've had sex with him, but you should be glad that someone came along to get that jerk away from you. You deserve better than that.
2006-12-15 20:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by joshatgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow him off next time he comes around and make freinds with her. Tell her what a tool he is and make a point to keep him away.
2006-12-15 20:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a user and a player. And if she knew you had something going on with him PLUS she has a boyfriend, she is not as cool as you think she is.
2006-12-15 20:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋