this boy likes me but I dont like him But I like his best friend How do I tell him with out breaking his heart?
2006-12-15 12:05:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me tell you honey.. it's hard to avoid breaking someone's hard you could tell them in the Nicest way possible.. but it depends on how senstive they are.. because you can be like.. "guy I don't like ( I can't think of a name) I really a flattered that you like me... but I'm sorry to say I'm not feeling you the same... but I do think your a really cool guy and I love hanging out with you I'm hoping we can be friends is that cool?"
and what goes thru person head "Hi, I don't like you"... but not everyone's the same he might just understand and be cool with it we all hate breaking hearts but you got to do what you go to do or else you'll be leading him on and that's worse you feel me..?
best of luck girl
2006-12-15 12:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Miss Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say that you think he is a great person but u r not attracted to him in that special way. you have to be honest.
Let some time pass, maybe three weeks or so.
Then see and make sure his best Friend likes u for real. otherwise, just find someone else who isn't connected to either of them.
Don't worry, this happens often. honesty is best. just be kind and gentle. It's OK, it's not your fault! you like who you like and that's' fine!
Be Happy, good luck.
Irene
2006-12-15 12:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in a tough situation. you'll have to come right out and say it im afraid. but dont say both at once. first tell him you arent interested in a relationship, then tell the boy you like after letting the situation cool that you like him. time should help everything
2006-12-15 12:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him that you dont really like him and that you want to be friends and to make it up you'd spend the afternoon going to get a drink and talking to him-as friends that is. Just talk to him basically being friends is the closest thing to love. or closest thing to dating.
2006-12-15 12:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lalalalala! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him that u r not interested in him right now... but wait at least a month after to talk to his friend
2006-12-15 12:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by reesespeices 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when that happend to me i made it kinda clear by talking to him about other guys and then i told my friends my stich and how i didnt wanna date him and now hes over me :) good luck!
2006-12-15 12:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his best friend
2006-12-15 12:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typical girl. you are being played by his bestfriend. LOL
2006-12-15 12:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh that is hard why do you likr his best friend
2006-12-15 12:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by sweety84pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋