Ive been messing around with this chick Natalija and the more I get to know her I'm falling for her but I'm not sure if it's the same for her. We only got really phyiscal during weekends(sitting together,foreplay, sleeping together, kissing and just talking about why we like each other. Then during the weekdays nothing really happens cause were always with a crowd of friends and when I do ask her to just chill she never will brake her plans with her girls to just chill with me. I ask her out and she pretty much said no I guess cause she said she really dosent know me but Ive knowen her for over 3 months so I dont know. I dont want to ask her out again cause I have the fear she will say no again to my face when I still dont get why she would do stuff with me but not want to be with me. I think I'm going to just ask her if she wants something more of what we have going on rite now or just take it slow and see where we go? Is that a good idea or no? And she is literally with me everyday.
2006-12-15 11:48:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, the answer is right in front of your eyes and you don't even see it. the reason she won't break her plans is because you ask her to "chill" with you. don't you get it? girls don't want to "chill", it's not worth breaking ANYTHING for. girls want wine, dine and romance. and for some reason i can tell that you've lacked in that area. well for one you called her a "chick", your not hopeless, you just don't know how to sweep a girl off her feet. don't ask her to "chill", ask her out to dinner at a nice quiet resteraunt, and by resteraunt i dont mean mcdonalds! after that go to a secluded hill top, sweet talk her and dont be so damn blunt. whisper sweet nothings in her ear and make your "genuine" feelings for her known.
2006-12-15 11:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what she said and stuff. just think tough and move on with your life .you deserve better then that. but don't ask her again because thats realy going to make yourself look like a punk .
2006-12-15 12:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she is thinking, and if she tells you stuff, then you know she still loves u
2006-12-15 11:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you don't you'll always wonder what if and if she says no than she's jus not the one for you
2006-12-15 11:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jis ask her now can u answer my question plz???
2006-12-18 09:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋