I met him online... and every day I can't wait to talk to him. And I know it sounds so stupid and dangerous, like every other girl that gets raped by the guy she met over the internet...
But God, I can't stop thinking about him. And I would LOVE to meet him you don't even know... But I can't. Because he lives halfway across the world... It doesn't make sense to me.
Why would God want me to meet... someone I could never meet?
2006-12-15 11:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by Pursue Happiness 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMGGG. I went through the EXACT SAME THING. I liked a guy whom i never met, on the internet that lived across the world.. even CALLED him (yeah the 20 digit number and everything LoL) I wouldnt say its wrong, but it can wear you out. If you're my age, you prolly wont be able to travel until after u graduate or win the lottery LoL. But yeah this guy was MUICHO sweet and yeah i couldnt stop either.. but what i did to solve my problem was to never talk to him again. It was going nowhere and he had other girls on his mind... why put myself through that?
2006-12-15 11:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would say you've fallen into lust and infatuation. I don't think you can love someone you haven't met personally. That's not to say it wouldn't happen. I wouldn't say it's wrong either, but if you should decide to meet each other - be VERY careful (you both need to be careful - I mean maybe you're a maniac!) Some say God wouldn't put us in a situation that we couldn't handle - you need to decide with your head if you could handle meeting your friend.
I too have met a few people via internet who I would love to meet, and who knows - maybe someday.
2006-12-15 12:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by cat lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be in love with someone you have never physically seen or met I'm sorry but its impossible. You are probably addicted to chatting to him. If on the other hand you do go and meet him be careful you never know who you are meeting could be anyone. just think sensibly about what you are doing .
2006-12-15 11:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my bf online. We lived across the country from each other. It's been over a year now, and we live together and get along great. Meet him! Just be safe about it. Have him come to see you, and have a friend along just in case. It can work!
2006-12-15 11:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be tough at first, but getting to know if each without being physically intimately with each other is possibly the best way because you aren't judging by the looks, but by the brain. Stick to it and make sure you're not making it an illusion in your head. If you're completely sure it's from the heart, you should meet!
2006-12-15 11:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by bright! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants you to make a difference in their life! Maybe that person needs you in their life! Don't give up because that person is across the world stay in touch but like you said be careful!
2006-12-15 11:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Doodles14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've built him up so much in your mind that it would be a disappointment for you to meet. Contrary to popular belief it was Al Gore, not God, that invented the internet.
2006-12-15 11:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll do you one better....I like a woman I met online who lives miles upon miles away but at the same time I'm married. What do I do? I'm in a failing marriage.
2006-12-15 12:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not to fall in love with a guy. Actually ya'll could be distant lovers. Get his number call him time to time make him send u a pic of him, then print it out and take it everywhere u go.
2006-12-15 11:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not wrong, u cant help who you like or love. but maybe u should end it because there's tons of guys in this world that are near you and you might end up getting hurt.
2006-12-15 11:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by kim g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋