im 17. 18 in feburary. The thing is ive been goin with my boyfriend for a year, my mum and dad seemed to like him at the start they actually told me to say in his house and all. now there trying to stop me from talking to him on msn messenger, and msn messenger. I used to be wild before i met him but whilst ive met him ive stopped smoking and drinking. im still at 6th form in school and have a part time job, he works full time, drives and doesnt drink orsmoke, (neither of us take drugs).
i really love him and he treats me like a princess, he says i am his princess!!!!!!! :D
he wants us 2 get engaged (so do i) the ring is very expensive and i sed id be afraid to wear it incase i lost it, when i told my mum i was gettin engaged she sed well you dont have to get married till your 50 or 60. and i take it th rings outa argos, he let me see the ring he liked and its beautiful. what u thing i shud do i wana move in with him, am i right????????
2006-12-15 11:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by Paula W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Finish school and get started on what you want from the next phase of your life and then think about moving in together.
If you were sure you would not be asking on here
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2006-12-19 10:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't move in with him just yet. I do believe in relationships, but I'd hold back for a little first. If you want to get engaged that's up to you, but I'd probably wait until I was 18 first. I guess your mum may have gone off him because she's suddenly realised you're taking the relationship very seriously. Maybe she thinks it's too soon to be moving on to the next level?
Regardless, it's your life, and it's for living. Do what you think is right, but always make sure you don't burn all your bridges because it's important to always have options if things aren't working out further down the line. Just make sure if things go wrong you don't let yourself get treated badly.
Good luck. And take care hun ;)
2006-12-15 11:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Swordy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know chicken.
You won't lose anything by waiting an you've all the time in the World to decide.
So take your time, you could try living together for a few years, you'd be suprised how much people change when you live with them.
Money should'nt matter in Love.
But if you want to make it really special an spend loads on your day then save up an go for it.
Its entirely up to you lady nobody can tell you what you want.
If it makes you happy then do it, if your anxious then wait.
2006-12-15 11:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet hart, go with your heart. If the ring cost 1 penny, if its from the person you love its value is beyond comprehension. Do what you feel you need to do. Good luck and God Bless
2006-12-15 12:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Simon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are way to young to get married. Live with him first and then go on from there.
2006-12-15 11:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take your time make sure it is right for you act with your heart and your head we are all allowed to make mistakes at your age so don't be to scared it will all be OK.
2006-12-15 11:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by ag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are stupid big time if you get married so soon.
Only desperated women get married so soon.
You should get married at less when you are 21
2006-12-15 11:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats totaly your call
best of luck to you
2006-12-15 11:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The ring HE LIKED.....forget it.
2006-12-15 13:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what feels right if you love him
2006-12-15 12:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by porkellasdad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋