They usually take place on the eve of the wedding. Is it a good or bad way to end being single?
2006-12-15 11:24:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The idea of a bachelor party is that the guy is going off to have one more night of fun and excitement before settling down to boring married life. If this is your point of view or if you are wanting to have strippers and you plan on doing wild and crazy things then I personally don't think you have the right attitude about getting married. Getting married doesn't mean you are losing your fun exciting life. You are starting life with the person that you love, and that is VERY exciting. My husband and I moved right after our wedding so he had a poker night with the guys and I had a girls night before we left to say goodbye. I think tame parties like this are okay, because it isn't going to hurt the other person.
2006-12-15 16:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by LLL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been to a couple bachelor parties and to honest it was just a way for some "Ladies of the night" to come and attempt to make some money. At the first one the groom slept with one of the "fallen women," that were there, after she had gone down on a few of the other brothers that were there, I don't know if he used a jimmy or not, Then some of the other brothers at the party paid for the lay for him as a present, but it was not my style, so I did not give any money on it. Then, at the next one that lady grabbed me and pulled me to the floor and had me pulling a string our of vagina, then tried to get me to go down on her, all this while the other brothers were watching. I told her and them, she had lost her mind, only I was not so nice about, because some of them kept pushing up on me about it. The idea of the party is cool, but the festivities that took place to a certain respect were outdated, but that's my opinion. All I can say is as man about get married, the next day I would not have slept with anyone and take the chance of passing something to my newly wedded wife on the night of our first night as husband and wife.
2006-12-15 11:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think they're overrated. i prefer a couple party. where you and your friends and your fiance and their friends get together and all party together. i don't like bachelor and bachelorette parties cuz it's too much of a risk of cheating on your fiance and why would you want to risk the most amazing thing you have in your life. especially the night before the wedding. i told my friends that i don't want a bachelorette party and if they give me one anyways i'm gonna be pissed off. if they think they're gonna hire a stripper and throw me a party then they must not respect me well enough to be considered friends. i think bachelor and bachelorette parties are vulgar. why get wasted and watch people strip the night before your wedding? do you want a hangover on your wedding day? do you wanna wake up with crabs from the stripper on your wedding day? bachelor and bachelorette parties can do more harm than good. i say forget them.
2006-12-15 11:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, in my fiance's country they don't go to strip clubs or have male strippers or whatever come over. They just spend the night out with their friends drinking, usually dress the groom up in a silly costume (same for the bride) and just have fun all night. I think as long as the activities are something both you and your future wife agree on, then there's no problem.
2006-12-15 11:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well on one hand I think that they're a fun way to send a friend off. On the other, I think it is studpid when people go over board by sleeping with strangers. That taking things to far!! If a girl or guy wants to party hardy before he or she gets married fine. But just respect yourself, your partner and the relationship.
2006-12-15 11:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by inciespider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We did ours a few days before the wedding, not the eve of. I know my hubby's brother rented a stretch hummer, and they went out on the town. They came back wasted, and didn't hit a strip club. I think it depends on the character of the people. I know they didn't hit a strip club, because in San Francisco, most of them have a strict no alcohol rule. My hubby also hates strip clubs, because they remind him of when he was drugged and robbed in Moscow... As for me I got drunk at home with my girls, and got some video of my slightly overweight sister giving her friend a lap-dance. Exciting.
2006-12-15 18:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends on what you guys end up doing! My husband and I each had ours the weekend before our wedding. Me and the girls just had a "fiesta" at my house with margaritas and a man-part shaped pinata and then went bowling! My husband just went barhopping with some friends! We both had a lot of fun
2006-12-15 17:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of a personal choice. My and my H decided to have them but they were like a week before, because who wants to be out late the night before they get married? And if you don't want to you don't have to do any of the traditional stuff (strippers, getting wasted, etc.) You might just do something that you regret anyway.
2006-12-15 12:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by imadancr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have one the day before the wedding, but a week before.
They are harmless about 99.9% of the time. Sure there is the occasional bad apple, but that heppens.
2006-12-15 12:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make it seem like getting married is about losing out or giving up freedom to have sex with other people. They don't really seem to reinforce the purpose of marriage. And there's nothing worse than a hungover bridal party with stink of booze coming out of their pores.
2006-12-15 12:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋