i just think about her all the time i just don't know what to do ive already tried telling her how i feel she doesnt care and idk i want to get over her i want my life back its as if she sucked everything i was out of me what do i do to make this go away
2006-12-15 11:19:39 · 10 answers · asked by im_nobody_to 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could still be energetically connected to your ex, and while that sounds like encouragement from the universe, it's not -- it's you! You still may be giving him/her your energy in thought, emotional, or spiritual form. You could be doing so unconsciously, out of habit, or based on a belief that this love is the only (or the best love) you could ever have. And, quite possibly, you have not allowed yourself to fully grieve it yet.
On the other hand, there is also the possibility that your ex won't let go and is still hooked into you. If this is the case, you can clear that out in a gentle way with love and light (and say goodbye if that's what you wish).
Whatever the case, this may have been the deepest love you have ever shared with someone. But know that it is not the only love (or the best love) that you can -- or will -- share with anyone in the future.
2006-12-15 11:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting over someone is one of the hardest things you will ever have to do in your life. trust me, im still there...5 months later.
after i was broken up with, i asked around as to what people thought was the best way to get over him. some told me 'give it 2 to 3 months then move on' as if a time limit is needed.
keep yourself occupied. dont sit around and be sad and think about it, even if that is all you want to do., the more you do, the less you have time to think about it. also, focus on the bad parts of the relationship, the parts that made it hard. you will get over it eventually, it takes time. until then, try to think about anything else.
2006-12-15 11:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy, be with friends more, take a new course...anything but sit around thinking about her. You will have dozens more gf in your life so take your time.
2006-12-15 11:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over somebody is to find somebody new. You might feel you are not up for it yet- but as soon as you start talking to new people you'll feel better!!!!
2006-12-15 11:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find someone else that you can think about all the time. Just wait in time you'll move on.
2006-12-15 11:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let see, same problem here, took you sometime,
you can just forget her and chill out. This is your life, if she's already rejected you, then she's out of your life, don't let her control your life like that.
2006-12-15 11:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl and start dating immediately. It works.
HANK (Josh)
2006-12-15 11:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. If you figure it out, please tell me.
My bf dumped me xmas two years ago. I still am not over him. I don;t know how to make it better.
2006-12-15 11:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by rainthatwalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it go take u some time
2006-12-15 11:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by bossy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-15 11:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Uri B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋