I came home from work today and my boyfriend was not here. He has stayed gone before with his friends all weekend this makes the 6th time he has done this. What should I do. I am hurting so bad.
2006-12-15 11:13:12 · 6 answers · asked by fields2333@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him like it is. Stop being Jacky. I understand if you want to spend time with your friends that's fine , but you can't stay all night I'm worried. Tell him he better stop slipping up or you will break up with him. Don't take crap from a man staying out that late!
2006-12-15 11:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by shaniemr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didn't tell you he was going? does he ever give you a heads up that he's leaving for an entire weekend at a time?
he should keep you posted on what he's doing, especially if you live together. how do you know he's out with his friends, and not with a woman for a romantic rendezvous (sp?)
you have every right to confront him on this if you are living together. tell him something along the lines of "hey, if you're going to be gone all weekend and leaving me at home, at least give me a heads up, so i can have some girlfriends over, or go out and do something."
or if you really want to piss him off, make some big plans for next weekend, don't tell him, and leave on friday without him knowing.
2006-12-15 19:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can support yourself, I would leave him. He's obviously not ready for a serious relationship and isn't mature enough to handle it. My husband was like that, and I stuck with it, but it affected me. I was depressed, gained weight. To top it off, we also had 2 small children at the time and I was stuck at home w/ them, and no car, no phone, no way to go anywhere, and if I'd had it to do over again, I would've gotten a job, stuck w/ the job, and gotten myself out. Maybe it would've woke him up sooner, I don't know. He finally stopped doing that, but it took us splitting up and him wanting to get back w/ me before I set up my terms and stuck with them.
Good luck
2006-12-15 19:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like a little something something going on with your boyfriend. I mean he's not with his friends or telling you where he is so you might want to figure out what it is before he break your heart.
2006-12-15 19:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it, straight up =]
2006-12-15 19:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by evita2usally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM.
2006-12-15 19:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by crane1951@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋