We were together 2 years and everything was peachy. Then suddenly he broke it off sayin his parents werent happy (they didnt like me cause i was quiet) and now he is sayin that he needs to be alone and for a long time. he is 23 and i am 19. i am really confused as to why he was with me for 2 whole years if this is what he wants! things were fine leading up to the end and we were even talking about engagement. he keeps saying its how it has to be and that we cant work it out! this has really destroyed me cause i love him so much, has this happened to anyone else? what did u do?
2006-12-15 11:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same thing happened with me I was with this guy for 2 years and all of a sudden he wants to break up. I was crushed. I was 18 and he was 22. But I went on with my life. There wasn't anything else I could do. He wouldn't take me back. So crying about it wasn't going to get me any where. Just made me even more sicker. I started to date again. I had alot of fun. And one day he calls and wants to get back together. He asked me if I missed I said no and that was that. Every now and again he trys. But the answer will still be the same. Even more now. Because I am getting in 7 months. I couldn't be happier. Everything happens for a reason. I am glad that he broke up with me because if he didn't then I would still be with him and probably really unhappy. So just remember keep your chin up and everything happens for a reason. One way or the other things will work out they always do.
2006-12-15 11:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that guys are just sometimes stupid like that. I've been hurt many times and got dumped for some stupid reasons. One guy told me he was about to graduate and move away and that it wouldn't be fair to me. BS. He is just selfish. I was in love a couple times and swore that I would be with them forever. Not to sound blunt but, life goes on, there are plenty of men out there. I recommend a night out with the girls. Don't dwell on it, the more desperate you are, the more turned off he will be. what is meant to be will be!!
2006-12-15 19:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by lins0043 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, I know it hurts but you just have to let it go, you guys are both are so young, and he's probably just feeling that he is too young to settle down, and it's easier to blame it on someone else other than be a man and tell you the truth. Honey their are many many guys out there, my suggestion find out who you are and what you want and then find someone else. It'll all work out
2006-12-15 19:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you, it wouldn't have mattered what his parents thought of you. or, he met someone else and didn't have the guts to be honest with you. this was his sick way of playing it off. but trust me honey, what goes around, comes back around. you deserve better anyway. keep your head up shorty. he ain't the first - he won't be the last.
2006-12-15 19:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by dip_n_cecilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this hasnt happende to me yet but really talk to him about it. usualy parents like the quiet girls... u shoud become loud and obnoxious and see how he likes it then!!
2006-12-15 19:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by delasalle2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Move on.
2006-12-15 19:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT GO OUT WITH OTHER GUYS LIKE ME
2006-12-15 19:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by BIG WILLIE THE GEORGIA TITIAN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we have all been through this in some way or another.
you have been dumped.
MOVE ON!
2006-12-15 19:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's discovered that he is gay.
2006-12-15 19:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by candl91402 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋