I just got a new boyfriend about three weeks ago and he has been really sick for the last few days. My best friend says she saw him with another girl! I called him the same day and there was no answer and I'm really worried, my best friend has never lied to me. I think I need to know what to do!!
2006-12-15 11:04:57 · 33 answers · asked by koalaswallas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three whole weeks? You should end it.
2006-12-15 11:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Confrontation is the best way to do it , that way you get to say what you want with no holds bar.Don't you worry if he doesn't answer you already know he's cheating on you so why bother to ask right, let him know that you're not stupid that you know what's going on .Closure is very important in a relationship so you don't wonder around thinking what if or i should've said something you know.Say what you want to say and then move on,never look back never regret anything.Goodluck girl!
2006-12-15 11:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by charlen24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he seems like the kind of guy that would do that, then forget him but you obviously see good quailties in him and that's why you've been dating him. I am not saying to just let this slide but find out the whole story. Do you know the girl he was with? could it have been a family member? Relax, be confident, and don't take crap from guys! If you're even considering that he could be a jerk like that then get rid of him now before he hurts you more
2006-12-15 11:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by lins0043 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give your boyfriend a chance to defend himself or at least offer an explanation. If he's been sick, he obviously isn't feeling well enough to return calls right away. Leave him a voice message saying that you really need to talk to him as soon as he's feeling better.
When he calls, calmly explain to him exactly what your friend saw, and ask him flat out if he is dating/screwing/interested in this other girl, or any other girl. Based on his answer, you will have to decide for yourself how much you trust him.
2006-12-15 11:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would walk up to him and ask him what hes been doing for the last few days, and then ask him to do something soon (today or Tom.) if he's busy ask him what, act like your not curious tho. If he is cheating he really doesn't like enough to tell you he was. Keep calling him. about 3 times a day if he doesn't answer. then when you see him again ask him why he didn't answer your calls. This is a boys opinion!
2006-12-15 11:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww How sad. Well just look at it this way. It was only for three weeks so it shouldnt bother you too much.I hope. But you shouldnt take crap from no one. Your heart is something you should always protect. Just end it now. He doesnt deserve a sweetheart like you. Im sure you could find someone who will treat you right. Good luck
2006-12-15 11:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by your papi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask, then you probably already know what you need to do. Leave him. If he has a change of heart he can try to re-earn your trust, but that rarely happens. At least at this point you've only invested 3 weeks into the relationship. Wouldn't you feel stupid if you put a lot of time into it and found out that he's two timing you?
2006-12-15 11:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lorrie C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't be too quick to jump to conclusions. Your friend may be mistaken, or might have her own reasons to say that. Just take this as a "red flag" and watch out for others. You get a couple more reasons to not trust him, then dump him, but this in itself is too little to cut a potential relationship over, unless you really aren't that much into him anyway.
Good luck.
2006-12-15 11:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by yishor 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you think he is telling you he is sick and going out with someone else? I think you already know what to do. What is that shirt say I see everyone wearing? Kid Rock is one of the more popular to wear it. It say's "Bro's before Ho's" Need to turn that one around to say oh I don't know something like. Sister's before A**holes or something. You know what I mean. Listen to your friend.
2006-12-15 11:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jilly bean 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ask him what the deal with the other girl is. Let him know he's been seen with her and your source is very reliable. Surely he'll have enough sense to fess-up or have a plausible explanation. Then you can make your informed decision.
2006-12-15 11:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by pam-reaves@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, try to talk to him about it, but stop calling him. Wait for him to get back to you. I dont think ur friend lied unless she confused him to someone else?
If he was wit someone else then find out who taht girl was, Does he have sisters etc.. If not dump him like hot rocks!!
2006-12-15 11:10:12 · answer #11 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋