My girlfriend flirts with other guys... confronted her about it and she said she'd stop, but after a couple weeks, she forgets about it and it happens again. What should I think? She tells me she doesn't like herself (isn't happy with her appearance) So I'm guessing she might be liking the attention? Why would she flirt with other guys if she has me...
Maybe I should flirt with other girls and see how she feels? I've tried before, but she acts like it doesn't even affect her, so I don't know...
2006-12-15 10:57:24 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you consider her messing another guys hair as she walks by or poking him flirting? Because that's what she does, and later they get into a little playful fight.. I hope I'm not over-reacting.. I don't wanna come across as a jealous asshole.
2006-12-15 11:01:59 · update #1
flirting is natural, and she goes home with you
what is the problem??
2006-12-15 11:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe you should just dump her ungrateful butt! First off, if she has an issue with her looks and likes attention, why flirt with other guys for it if you are there giving her the attention? She's being real bogus and real phony. A lot of girls and guys do it a lot. Soon as they get more attention than they bargained for, they get big headed! Don't flirt with other girls to make her jealous, play it the right way. Dump her and see if she'll regret playing games with your or not. If you put up with her flirting, soon she'll start cheating and the same excuse will be because she has low self esteem. Let that drama go honey!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-15 11:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it man. You need to learn to follow your gut feeling. Don't ignore signs like these in your girl especially if you are looking for a serious relationship. I speak from personal experience. I ignored similar signs from my girl and siz years later she actually cheated. she wasn't even doing things as bad as what you mentioned but she did things that would make me jealous. I ignored them thinking it was all in my head. But I think we were all given our gut feeling for a reason and we should learn tp trust it a little more. I would leave her before it gets worst. today it might be flirting, tomorrow it could be something else. Alos their are some girls out their still left that know how to respect a relationship.
2006-12-15 11:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is flirting, flirting doesn't mean that she is cheating. Also you shouldn't break up just because she is a flirt that would be the wrong thing to do. Also maybe by you flirting with another girl didn't bother her because she feels secure with your relationship.
2006-12-15 11:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone flirst, but to do it in front of your boyfriend is out of the question. If she is insecure of herself, it can be bad news. Usually insecure people are jealous, if she doesn't seem to react when you flirt, she might not even like you too much to lose you.
2006-12-15 11:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by bright! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to make you feel bad dude, but maybe she's trying to make a hint that she doesn't want to "go out" with you anymore. It's happened to me too, except only with a guy (obviously)! Or maybe she likes the fact that not ONLY her boyfriend thinks that she is beautiful (you do right?), but other guys as well. I'm not that pleased with my appearance either, but I just know that God thinks that I'm beautiful and that no one could measure up to me. Try telling her that...
2006-12-15 11:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by 'riah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's doing this kind of stuff to you then she's not worth you're time and effort. i would think that she's just out of line flirting with other guys and i would talk to her about it and if it doesn't work then let her go. she obviously doesn't respect you or give you the respect you deserve if she's acting this way right in front of you. don't worry you're not over reacting its natural for anyone to be this concerned about the person they like. let her go. its not worth it if you have already tried to work things out with her and she doesn't budge to make things between you better. find someone better that's worth you're time and energy and effort.
2006-12-15 11:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't flirt with other girls..that will just cause problems..
it could just be her personality and if hse is self concious you're right it's probably the attention..
you need to sit her down and say..."I brought this up before but I feel the need to do it again...I feel like you are drawing attention from other guys and it bothers me....I feel like you are craving the attention but I don't understand why when you have me...it makes me feel like im not enough"..You need to make it about you and how you feel and not accusing her and pointing out all her wrongs!
good luck
2006-12-15 11:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your gf's got issues. even after uve done so much. (a- spoken toher about it, b-flirted with other chicks). I think secrectly she doesn't like you very much anymore. he's staying in the relationship because she feels she has too? I don't mean to be harsh but it's true. She's trying to find out ways for YOU to break up with her. Not the other way around. I'm sorry.
Now, either you can speak to her about this. Or just break up with her.
2006-12-15 11:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It may have a lot to do with her self-esteem. Flirting with others yourself hasn't worked so don't try that again. Just let her know how you feel about her and tell her what you think of her inside and out.
2006-12-15 10:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
exactley u answered ur own question...it sonds like she just subconciousley flirts..i do it without even noticing says my girlfriends. She fact that she tries to stop is a good sign. dont play games like flirting with other girls its dangerous and hurtful. It sounds like she does like the attention though. Maybe she secrely wants u to fight over her.
2006-12-15 11:00:21 · answer #11 · answered by lanah10101 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋