i dont know y but im having a hard time getting a bonner when im about to have sex with my girlfriend wat can i do?
2006-12-15 10:51:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are probably stressed out about something. are you worried about getting your gf pregnant? are you having problems at work or school? once you clear your head, you will most likely be able to perform better.
or maybe you need more foreplay. ask your gf to help you get excitied by giving you a quick bj, kissing you, rubbing sensitive areas such nipples, inner thighs, etc.
if this doesnt help, you might need to see a doc.
good luck!! ;)
2006-12-15 10:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you stressed are you worried tense nervous any of these can cause you to be unable to
Are you scared to get her pregnant Do you feel pressured
What you have to do is relax and not think about it. the more that you think about it the longer the situation lasts.
If this becomes constant I might suggest you speaking do a doctor but I think all you need to do is relax
Is it your first time or is there something bothering you.
have you talked to her about it
Maybe she has said something that is bothering you pyscologically. That can stick in your mind every time you want too. Good luck hope it works.
2006-12-15 19:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay my friend. Also, just relax. Sounds like you get tense and start thinking about how your performance is going to be. Laugh and have some fun. : ) Good Luck
2006-12-15 18:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Horsetrainer89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you're probably just over thinking the whole thing. start with foreplay and then move on from there, and if it still won't happen then it's not meant to be. just make sure that if it does happen that you are safe, USE PROTECTION!!!
2006-12-15 19:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try not to worry about it as that will make it worse.
Second, lay back and get your gf to lick and suck it until it goes hard.
Third, have fun *winks*
2006-12-15 19:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by shamoolax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try viagra dumb@ss!
2006-12-15 18:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play around with it before you do it
2006-12-15 18:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by im always right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your MARRIED!
2006-12-15 18:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by hate school, love Dog Whisperer! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
air pump....insert into rear and start pumping!
2006-12-15 18:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋